Here is some additional from me...
I need some advice... :(
I love my best friend. We've known each other for about 1.5 years now.
At the beginning I was chasing after her, but I gave up in the middle because she couldn't get over her ex, so I find myself another girlfriend. It was then we became best friend. My relationship with the other girl didn't last long and I broke up and it took me sometime to forget bout that girl. Now I found my self in love my best friend again. She was the reason why I started playing guitar and she occupied my mind most of the time. I've confessed to her and she rejected me.
At first I was planning on ending this friendship if she were to reject me. Because at the start our friendship has also stretch a bit. When I started loving her again, I feel that our relationship has stretched a bit. Even as a friend we were getting a bit further, but we were still close with each other. You could say that our relationship was not a peak anymore or not as close as before and I don't know why. She said she didn't realize that I love her, not until I confessed to her, so I don't think she was avoiding me.
Some of my friends asked me to give up because they say I have no chance, but still confessed to her. I confessed to her twice. At first she said she still do not know the answer and ask me to wait whether her feeling will change within a month. So a month has passed and I asked her again. She still said no.
She said she considered me only as her best friend and she said if I confessed to her before I went out with the other girl, she would've accept me. We talked for a while and then I hugged her and even kissed her on the lips, she shows only a little rejection. She even said that she might even regret it rejecting me. But she still said no. She told me to forget bout her, but she's not even sure herself whether she will regret it or not.
Because even before I confess our relationship was getting further, I thought I want to end this friendship as well.But she's just too precious for me and because she didn't avoid me at all,only show little rejection and saying that she might regret it, making me unable to give up on her yet and continue to fight on knowing I have a very small chance and might be hurt again.
Now, we still are close friend. We do hang out with each other, but my relationship with her still are not getting better or getting to 'the peak' again. I even feel that there's a chance that we will be no longer a close friend.
I don't know if I'm doing the right thing. I don't even know why I love her, because our personality are different to each other and she's not my type of girl, but I just can't help it to falling in love with her. Right now I can only hope that my determination can change her feeling in the future, despite having a very small chance of that to happen..
I need some advice on how to handle this situation....
I'm in love with my bestfriend
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Here is some additional from me...
I need some advice... :(
I love my best friend. We've known each other for about 1.5 years now.
At the beginning I was chasing after her, but I gave up in the middle because she couldn't get over her ex, so I find myself another girlfriend. It was then we became best friend. My relationship with the other girl didn't last long and I broke up and it took me sometime to forget bout that girl. Now I found my self in love my best friend again. She was the reason why I started playing guitar and she occupied my mind most of the time. I've confessed to her and she rejected me.
At first I was planning on ending this friendship if she were to reject me. Because at the start our friendship has also stretch a bit. When I started loving her again, I feel that our relationship has stretched a bit. Even as a friend we were getting a bit further, but we were still close with each other. You could say that our relationship was not a peak anymore or not as close as before and I don't know why. She said she didn't realize that I love her, not until I confessed to her, so I don't think she was avoiding me.
Some of my friends asked me to give up because they say I have no chance, but still confessed to her. I confessed to her twice. At first she said she still do not know the answer and ask me to wait whether her feeling will change within a month. So a month has passed and I asked her again. She still said no.
She said she considered me only as her best friend and she said if I confessed to her before I went out with the other girl, she would've accept me. We talked for a while and then I hugged her and even kissed her on the lips, she shows only a little rejection. She even said that she might even regret it rejecting me. But she still said no. She told me to forget bout her, but she's not even sure herself whether she will regret it or not.
Because even before I confess our relationship was getting further, I thought I want to end this friendship as well.But she's just too precious for me and because she didn't avoid me at all,only show little rejection and saying that she might regret it, making me unable to give up on her yet and continue to fight on knowing I have a very small chance and might be hurt again.
Now, we still are close friend. We do hang out with each other, but my relationship with her still are not getting better or getting to 'the peak' again. I even feel that there's a chance that we will be no longer a close friend.
I don't know if I'm doing the right thing. I don't even know why I love her, because our personality are different to each other and she's not my type of girl, but I just can't help it to falling in love with her. Right now I can only hope that my determination can change her feeling in the future, despite having a very small chance of that to happen..
I need some advice on how to handle this situation....