I definitely feel you should just continue being friends. If you want, you can even tell her not to talk about her boyfriend to you because that is very inconsiderate. Honestly, I've dealt with a similar situation of yours except there was no other guy in the equation. I still feel like we could have something and a good portion of our conversations still causes slight infatuation but considering how lackluster her devotion to the relationship was and her fickle mind, I've realized that seriously going after her still is a dumb idea.
Both you and I can't help who we're attracted to and that isn't a bad thing. Age has nothing to do with it. We can though help ourselves not fall pray to people who abuse others' feelings and in turn, miss out on something much better than what they choose to deal with.
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I definitely feel you should just continue being friends. If you want, you can even tell her not to talk about her boyfriend to you because that is very inconsiderate. Honestly, I've dealt with a similar situation of yours except there was no other guy in the equation. I still feel like we could have something and a good portion of our conversations still causes slight infatuation but considering how lackluster her devotion to the relationship was and her fickle mind, I've realized that seriously going after her still is a dumb idea.
Both you and I can't help who we're attracted to and that isn't a bad thing. Age has nothing to do with it. We can though help ourselves not fall pray to people who abuse others' feelings and in turn, miss out on something much better than what they choose to deal with.