Sorry for coming off as a dick but this kinda shit just makes me so angry.
Anyways, on a more positive note, I knew someone in a situation similar to you. She was gay and had liked only women, but she met this guy and personality wise, they just clicked and fell in love.
Sure, he wasn't the girlfriend she'd been hoping for, but she loved him for ALL of him. At one point she said she really did want to be with a girl, but they were just so close that eventually she forgot about it.
Now she doesn't identify as lesbian, she identifies as bi.
Idk, good luck dude, I guess. I apologize for coming off so harsh at first.
Uh that's ok, sorry, it's the only relationship I've had which is why I'm so confused about it. I figured this was different to stories like you just said because it's not like i've ever done anything with her as though she were a woman.
Just to address the thing you said earlier, of course I know how fluid sexuality is and of course I've considered that I'm bisexual, but my pretty stubborn and exlusive attraction to men and not women makes me wonder if i'm being generous with describing myself as 'bisexual' to other people.
I'm gay but in a relationship with a masculine woman
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Sorry for coming off as a dick but this kinda shit just makes me so angry.
Anyways, on a more positive note, I knew someone in a situation similar to you. She was gay and had liked only women, but she met this guy and personality wise, they just clicked and fell in love.
Sure, he wasn't the girlfriend she'd been hoping for, but she loved him for ALL of him. At one point she said she really did want to be with a girl, but they were just so close that eventually she forgot about it.
Now she doesn't identify as lesbian, she identifies as bi.
Idk, good luck dude, I guess. I apologize for coming off so harsh at first.
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Uh that's ok, sorry, it's the only relationship I've had which is why I'm so confused about it. I figured this was different to stories like you just said because it's not like i've ever done anything with her as though she were a woman.
Just to address the thing you said earlier, of course I know how fluid sexuality is and of course I've considered that I'm bisexual, but my pretty stubborn and exlusive attraction to men and not women makes me wonder if i'm being generous with describing myself as 'bisexual' to other people.