I'm fat. Do a deserve loving boyfriend?

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  • I thought mysistersshadow was nicer in this post about the whole overweight thing. She is just giving some advice. For health reasons, it is not a bad idea to lose weight if you are substantially overweight.

    That being said, if she chooses to stay overweight, then that is her choice and not necessarily a bad one if she is happier that way for one reason or another.

    But the bmi might be helpful here because lots of girls say they are fat and they're not really that fat. If someone is really obese though, for health reasons, it is good to lose some extra weight.

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    • Thanks. I'm ignoring bobo becos hes clearly not mentally stable and seems to have a unhealthy obsession with me. For some reason he thinks hes been appointed the IIN police but the sad fact is hes clearly the one being a bully. Luckily for me I'm not fragile enough to be hurt by any of the shit he spews. And yea the BMI part is really important becos the problem may not be a problem just a misconception and since the OP clearly linked weight and self esteem it seems relevant.

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    • Yeah I've seen her be worse but she's still not nice here or overall. She's totally off base that losing weight is the solution to self-esteem. The health stuff is up to the OP, but she didn't ask about that. I call out all the Jerks on this site including mysistershadow. I've been lurking here a while and I finally decided to make an account and call jerk ad bullies like her out.

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