It's been almost two years since the first one broke my heart! :( and I haven't been seeing anyone since then. I don't wanna remain paralyzed for the rest of my life by this guy but I have no idea how to get him off my mind
Well, first of all: Stop checking in on his life through social medias and the likes. Try to not think about him and basically do your very best to remove him as much as you can.
Myself i'm a firm believer of the fact that once you care for someone, this person can never go back to mean absolutely nothing to you.
But he shouldn't effect you this strong because as you say it paralyzes you completely.
And if you had truly cared for the one that you are engaged with your feelings for him would have helped you get over this other guy as well.
You could also try to think of everything that's bad about this other guy and just think about it over and over again. When i came to my senses and dumped my ex i had to shut him out completely and torment myself with everything that was bad about him, rather than lingering onto the memories of what we had.
Four months has passed, i'm madly in love with someone else and i don't regret a shit xD
I'm engaged but I love someone else! How to get out of this mess!
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Just ... No.
You shouldn't had started something new with this old guy at the back of your mind!
But now you have so, ditch them both and take time for yourself and then maybe you can find someone proper.
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It's been almost two years since the first one broke my heart! :( and I haven't been seeing anyone since then. I don't wanna remain paralyzed for the rest of my life by this guy but I have no idea how to get him off my mind
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Well, first of all: Stop checking in on his life through social medias and the likes. Try to not think about him and basically do your very best to remove him as much as you can.
Myself i'm a firm believer of the fact that once you care for someone, this person can never go back to mean absolutely nothing to you.
But he shouldn't effect you this strong because as you say it paralyzes you completely.
And if you had truly cared for the one that you are engaged with your feelings for him would have helped you get over this other guy as well.
You could also try to think of everything that's bad about this other guy and just think about it over and over again. When i came to my senses and dumped my ex i had to shut him out completely and torment myself with everything that was bad about him, rather than lingering onto the memories of what we had.
Four months has passed, i'm madly in love with someone else and i don't regret a shit xD
OP should start being very gassy like me?
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I'm very gassy and my BF adores it xD