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I feel I am bisexual, I'm attracted to other men as much as I am to women. But I don't think I could ever have full intercourse with a man. Anal is not something that appeals to me at all. Is this normal?
Just because you are a man who'd like to have sex with a man doesn't mean that you have to enjoy anal sex! Just as it isn't a requirement to enjoy oral sex or vaginal sex as a straight woman.
Ah gay myths.
Not every gay/bi guy is a top or a bottom. There really are gay/bi guys that are neither.
Lots of gay men don't have anal intercourse. It isn't anal that makes you gay. And never having anal doesn't make you straight.
Who are you emotionally attracted to? Would you want to sleep with a guy to connect with hem metaphysically? I wonder if this is your motivation. If so, it's a normal emotion and it's not normal to fight it.
This is sort of how I feel. I can appreciate a man's looks, I would just be like "handsome young man" and stuff like that. But I don't ever....EVER want to have inter coarse with a man, no matter how good looking he is. Now with girls, it's kind of the same thing. I thing girls are hot, sexy, cute, everything (I like their personalities more, though). And I imagine myself with a girlfriend or wife in the future. But when the whole sex thing comes up, I just feel like I would want to give than to receive or do nothing but kiss. Know what I mean?
You are an individual with many avenues of where to go from here. Probably be safe with the opposite sex, but be friends with all.
If you find that it is important to be very close with another of your own sex, be very careful so that you don't think bad of yourself later on.
You are a good guy.
Bisexuality isn't really black and white. I don't really know where I stand myself.