I'm an 18 year old girl and have slept with 20 guys

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I was always a sweet, well behaved young lady, never kissed boys, didnt drink, didnt smoke, none of it. However, at the age of fourteen i began to come off the rails and lost my virginity to my boyfriend. Since then my life has included many sexual partners.
heres the sad part: when i was 3 or 4 years old my godbrother (my godparents son, their family were close friend of my family) and his friend (both 14) molested and raped me on a regular basis. The rapes were not "violent" in nature, but obviously a very sick thing to happen to a 3 year old. This went on till i was about 7 and my godbrother moved.

Is it normal that iv slept with so many people? Am i just a slut? (even at three) or is this my promiscuity linked to my sexual abuse

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  • bigtoy
    12 years ago

    They ruined you. I feel very sorry for you as the damage can never be undone - just don't blame yourself for what happened, it wasn't your fault that they are sick. Don't think you aren't normal - many people to whom these things don't happen to have many partners too. One day you will find someone who loves you and you will be able to put this all in the past. Best of luck and try to get help.
    And please tell someone about what they did so that they won't be able to do it to anyone else.

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  • beefcake
    12 years ago

    Three?? That's fucking horrible

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  • spunkyturtle
    11 years ago

    You're not a slut at all,any one who thinks that is someone you don't need to associate with. This is linked directly to your sexual abuse. I'm very sorry that happened to you. I suggest letting people know,and seeking counseling or therapy.

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  • darren3
    13 years ago

    Of course they are linked. That's major trauma whether you realize it or not. You need professional help and you need to report that incident to the police regardless of the time frame because without a doubt they are still raping babies. Who cares about how many men you sleep with. Get help and REPORT THIS.

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  • sararyan7242
    6 years ago

    Being a slut is not a bad thing.

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  • SEWnanist23
    7 years ago

    It's common for a Girl to have lost Her Virginity from the age of 12 to 16 as opposed to the sweet old fashioned notion of Her waiting for "The Right One" this can be along the adage that "Girls Mature Faster" Most guys live on boast so they will fabricate about How early they lost it an may in fact be still UNDIPPED. But if a Guy hasn't lost it by 21, He probably will be regarded as an Onanist in His social circles. 18 is actually when You should get started. It's the Last call to get oriented with the gender You are attracted to.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    It's definitely linked. Tell what happened to the police.

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  • BigShit
    11 years ago

    Slut

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  • MrPedobeard
    12 years ago

    People*... Peoria, lol...

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  • MrPedobeard
    12 years ago

    I agree with what everyone has said. Hyper-sexuality is common in people who have had childhood trauma such as sexual abuse. What you need is therapy. Find a therapist in the phone book or through some other trusted source who specializes in helping peoria deal with this. Also, be more careful who you sleep with. I know that may be very difficult, if not impossible, but still... Be careful.

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