He's being a selfish bellend :/
It's pretty cruel of him to get u going but then stop only to make u focus on him. Sex/love etc is give and take, and it's only fair that he gives you a good time to completion too! Next time tell him you want him to keep going, that you want him to fingerbang you til u cum, cos most guys wouldn't even realise that they've done something wrong - a man's iq seems to drop significantly when they're turned on lol! So communicate, tell him you're frustrated and that you love what he does to u but u need him to do it til u get what u need.
If you're not ready for penetrative sex then there's nothing to say you can't give him a good handy whilst he's fingering you - that can be a lot of fun with you both getting an orgasm at the end :)
Main thing - talk, speak up if there's something you want to change/do/dont want to do, want to try something new then ask, look up fun sexy things to do together & experiment. If you do these things you'll have a great sex life both now and in the future :)
I'm afraid to ask my boyfriend(s) for sexual pleasure
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He's being a selfish bellend :/
It's pretty cruel of him to get u going but then stop only to make u focus on him. Sex/love etc is give and take, and it's only fair that he gives you a good time to completion too! Next time tell him you want him to keep going, that you want him to fingerbang you til u cum, cos most guys wouldn't even realise that they've done something wrong - a man's iq seems to drop significantly when they're turned on lol! So communicate, tell him you're frustrated and that you love what he does to u but u need him to do it til u get what u need.
If you're not ready for penetrative sex then there's nothing to say you can't give him a good handy whilst he's fingering you - that can be a lot of fun with you both getting an orgasm at the end :)
Main thing - talk, speak up if there's something you want to change/do/dont want to do, want to try something new then ask, look up fun sexy things to do together & experiment. If you do these things you'll have a great sex life both now and in the future :)