"Re: the wedding night. Nothing to get worried about. You just lay there and let him do his thing."
The OP says she's already worried about having sex with her husband. If she's anxious and not aroused on her wedding night, there's a good chance there'll be no or very little natural vaginal lubrication. Some women find that penetrative sex the first time isn't that uncomfortable and some find it enjoyable. But if a woman has a large amount of hymenal tissue and it's never been stretched or torn by exercise or penetration by an object of some sort, that combined with a relatively dry vagina can make the experience unpleasant. If the guy is clueless and impatient, that can make everything a lot worse.
A terrible first experience of sex can create all sorts of long-lasting issues.
I'm a virgin and never been aroused?
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"Re: the wedding night. Nothing to get worried about. You just lay there and let him do his thing."
The OP says she's already worried about having sex with her husband. If she's anxious and not aroused on her wedding night, there's a good chance there'll be no or very little natural vaginal lubrication. Some women find that penetrative sex the first time isn't that uncomfortable and some find it enjoyable. But if a woman has a large amount of hymenal tissue and it's never been stretched or torn by exercise or penetration by an object of some sort, that combined with a relatively dry vagina can make the experience unpleasant. If the guy is clueless and impatient, that can make everything a lot worse.
A terrible first experience of sex can create all sorts of long-lasting issues.