Ok listen. Asexuality is no desire for sex alright. U fall in love like a normal person, doesn’t matter if man or woman. And when u can’t do some things in certain areas, discuss it with the person and you’ll find a solution
In my whole life I have met one person I believe is and she was swooning over some dudes too. But rather than asexual she had a disgust at sex and such. Out of her own reasons mind u
U can’t pick the people u fall in love with. If u like them u like them and then u have to decide what to do with that feeling. And if she chooses to be with him even with those feelings, I find that brave and I hope her partner is as brave as her
That made 0.0 sense. Asexuality is supposed to mean that but that's not entirely the case. Everyone I have known who claims asexual has masturbated before, had sex before orgasmed before and even had long term relationships! People don't take definitions of shit literally. Just say you have a low sex drive and move on!
I know people may use it in cases they shouldn’t, but if she’s really never been aroused there always the possibility you should keep in ur mind and that there’s nothing wrong with that
Also a lot of things don’t make sense to u when others explain, I’ve noticed that
There is nothing wrong if someone has no sex drive?.... uhhhhh... FALSE! Something is very wrong either hormonally or psychologically, and possibly a combination there of.
I'm not hating on anyone who is asexual and thinking their a bad person because their asexual, I'm just telling them that I don't believe they are in fact asexual. There's a difference!
Yes there is a difference. Between being just like that, like a homosexual person for example, or having some psychological issues. The psychological issues are normally connected with a lot of things and biologically there can be stuff too. But if it’s only the case that she’s not getting aroused, I do not believe there are many other reasons. If she’s that concerned she can go to a doctor, but otherwise if she’s healthy i wouldn’t get chemicals pumped into me cuz of that
And mind u she’s never been aroused. That implicates asexuality a lot.
I think she has been aroused, she just didn't know it because it wasn't very strong. I didn't think I had been aroused before until once then feelings were strong enough that I knew for sure. But then when I looked back it occured to me that I was aroused lying before I knew it. That doesn't change the fact that for the most part I don't buy asexuality.
Oh u know when u are. And most women fantasize together with that. If she really has been and doesn’t know, it’s not her fault, she can still be concerned for not knowing if that was it.
I'm a virgin and never been aroused?
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Ok listen. Asexuality is no desire for sex alright. U fall in love like a normal person, doesn’t matter if man or woman. And when u can’t do some things in certain areas, discuss it with the person and you’ll find a solution
In my whole life I have met one person I believe is and she was swooning over some dudes too. But rather than asexual she had a disgust at sex and such. Out of her own reasons mind u
U can’t pick the people u fall in love with. If u like them u like them and then u have to decide what to do with that feeling. And if she chooses to be with him even with those feelings, I find that brave and I hope her partner is as brave as her
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That made 0.0 sense. Asexuality is supposed to mean that but that's not entirely the case. Everyone I have known who claims asexual has masturbated before, had sex before orgasmed before and even had long term relationships! People don't take definitions of shit literally. Just say you have a low sex drive and move on!
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I know people may use it in cases they shouldn’t, but if she’s really never been aroused there always the possibility you should keep in ur mind and that there’s nothing wrong with that
Also a lot of things don’t make sense to u when others explain, I’ve noticed that
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There is nothing wrong if someone has no sex drive?.... uhhhhh... FALSE! Something is very wrong either hormonally or psychologically, and possibly a combination there of.
I'm not hating on anyone who is asexual and thinking their a bad person because their asexual, I'm just telling them that I don't believe they are in fact asexual. There's a difference!
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Yes there is a difference. Between being just like that, like a homosexual person for example, or having some psychological issues. The psychological issues are normally connected with a lot of things and biologically there can be stuff too. But if it’s only the case that she’s not getting aroused, I do not believe there are many other reasons. If she’s that concerned she can go to a doctor, but otherwise if she’s healthy i wouldn’t get chemicals pumped into me cuz of that
And mind u she’s never been aroused. That implicates asexuality a lot.
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I think she has been aroused, she just didn't know it because it wasn't very strong. I didn't think I had been aroused before until once then feelings were strong enough that I knew for sure. But then when I looked back it occured to me that I was aroused lying before I knew it. That doesn't change the fact that for the most part I don't buy asexuality.
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Oh u know when u are. And most women fantasize together with that. If she really has been and doesn’t know, it’s not her fault, she can still be concerned for not knowing if that was it.