It covers all aspects of female sexuality, including women who really have no idea what it means when people talk about being aroused.
Others have said you should seriously consider whether you really should get married. If your fiancé is interested in sex and he expects to have sex with you once you get married, I'd agree with that. Putting two people together who are completely ignorant about sex - the woman being someone who has no idea of what she needs to become sexually aroused - and expecting them to have an even halfway enjoyable sexual life is pretty stupid. That's how the majority of marriages used to be a hundred years or so ago, but the vast majority of women found sex to be an unpleasant duty at best, and the men didn't enjoy it half as much as they might have.
I'm not suggesting that only people who have screwed at least two dozen people can possibly enjoy sex. There's loads of decent sex education information on the internet (as well as a vast amount of crap, unfortunately), so it is at least possible for you and your husband-to-be to understand the mechanics, at least some of the psychological aspects of female arousal and some of the factors that lead to a couple having a sexual relationship they both enjoy.
Going into this thinking that it's all natural and you'll figure it out by trial and error would be a stupid approach. You might work it out in the end, but there's no logical reason to add sexual dissatisfaction to all the other stresses and adjustments you'll have to deal with at the start of your married life.
I'm a virgin and never been aroused?
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Have a look at this and seriously consider buying it:
https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=come+as+you+are&qid=1568060586&s=gateway&sr=8-1
It covers all aspects of female sexuality, including women who really have no idea what it means when people talk about being aroused.
Others have said you should seriously consider whether you really should get married. If your fiancé is interested in sex and he expects to have sex with you once you get married, I'd agree with that. Putting two people together who are completely ignorant about sex - the woman being someone who has no idea of what she needs to become sexually aroused - and expecting them to have an even halfway enjoyable sexual life is pretty stupid. That's how the majority of marriages used to be a hundred years or so ago, but the vast majority of women found sex to be an unpleasant duty at best, and the men didn't enjoy it half as much as they might have.
I'm not suggesting that only people who have screwed at least two dozen people can possibly enjoy sex. There's loads of decent sex education information on the internet (as well as a vast amount of crap, unfortunately), so it is at least possible for you and your husband-to-be to understand the mechanics, at least some of the psychological aspects of female arousal and some of the factors that lead to a couple having a sexual relationship they both enjoy.
Going into this thinking that it's all natural and you'll figure it out by trial and error would be a stupid approach. You might work it out in the end, but there's no logical reason to add sexual dissatisfaction to all the other stresses and adjustments you'll have to deal with at the start of your married life.