Can I ask you a question? How do you expect to become a proficient lover if you don't get some practice? It's not like the talent an artist, athlete or a musician is born with; sex is something we all must get experience at to be good.
Carrying this one step further, let's say you've met the girl of your dreams. Let's say she's almost a virgin; a few unsatisfying forays into sex. You really believe this one is the one. Just how pleased is she going to be that all you can offer her is another, slightly painful, unsatisfying, fumble in the sack? Oops, she's gone and you will wish you'd gotten a bit more experience.
I'm not saying commitment for life, only one and never anyone else again in your entire life. I'm saying a degree of commitment and not just casual, not beyond the point of no return. Committed relationships can still end.
Also, can't people practise within a relationship?
If a guy told me that he's inexperienced in advance I'd not mind. Just another reason to have a lot of sex! A guy who is a virgin can still practise with holding back his release while masturbating.
Why are your opinions always based around being a proficient lover? It really makes me wonder whether you had a traumatic experience where you 'fumbled in the sack', or if one of your partners left you because of sex, or your relationship suffered because of it. I'm sorry if that happened but I assure you it was probably an incredibly rare occurrence, with perhaps an underlying reason.
Maybe for you skillful-sex is the foundation of a successful relationship. For some, being in love is. For others, something else. Believe me there are women in this world for whom orgasms or the man's skill in bed aren't the be–all and end–all. I think it is also largely a matter of how secure a man is in himself. I have no shame in admitting my first time with a girl I was such a klutz. When we were in the shower, I tripped. When I spontaneously carried her to her room I hit my own head. And one of those times I even poked the general a few inches above the gate thinking, "HUH? WHERE DID IT GO?"
Often during those fumbles she laughed her ass off and so did I. A mere month or two later and the sex evolved and we both grew and learned rapidly. Sure I have only been with a couple of women since then but that first one was my best relationship ever, and might forever be. There is something invaluable about taking a journey together as opposed to two people meeting each other at the end of it. Ever been ice-skating? Wonder what must compel most of those couples, old and young, to skate together even though all they do is fumble, hobble and fall around.
That's just silly. No huge traumatic sexual experience in my past, so sorry to disappoint. It's important to me to be a proficient lover because I love fucking and really enjoy pleasing my partners. I would like to all let young men know that gaining a sexual education, like any other education, will serve them well in life. There is nothing grand or virtuous about an adult fumbling around in the bedroom, nothing.
I'm a man and I find sexual promiscuity disgusting
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Can I ask you a question? How do you expect to become a proficient lover if you don't get some practice? It's not like the talent an artist, athlete or a musician is born with; sex is something we all must get experience at to be good.
Carrying this one step further, let's say you've met the girl of your dreams. Let's say she's almost a virgin; a few unsatisfying forays into sex. You really believe this one is the one. Just how pleased is she going to be that all you can offer her is another, slightly painful, unsatisfying, fumble in the sack? Oops, she's gone and you will wish you'd gotten a bit more experience.
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I'm not saying commitment for life, only one and never anyone else again in your entire life. I'm saying a degree of commitment and not just casual, not beyond the point of no return. Committed relationships can still end.
Also, can't people practise within a relationship?
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Means you have self respect and expect others to as well.
If a guy told me that he's inexperienced in advance I'd not mind. Just another reason to have a lot of sex! A guy who is a virgin can still practise with holding back his release while masturbating.
Why are your opinions always based around being a proficient lover? It really makes me wonder whether you had a traumatic experience where you 'fumbled in the sack', or if one of your partners left you because of sex, or your relationship suffered because of it. I'm sorry if that happened but I assure you it was probably an incredibly rare occurrence, with perhaps an underlying reason.
Maybe for you skillful-sex is the foundation of a successful relationship. For some, being in love is. For others, something else. Believe me there are women in this world for whom orgasms or the man's skill in bed aren't the be–all and end–all. I think it is also largely a matter of how secure a man is in himself. I have no shame in admitting my first time with a girl I was such a klutz. When we were in the shower, I tripped. When I spontaneously carried her to her room I hit my own head. And one of those times I even poked the general a few inches above the gate thinking, "HUH? WHERE DID IT GO?"
Often during those fumbles she laughed her ass off and so did I. A mere month or two later and the sex evolved and we both grew and learned rapidly. Sure I have only been with a couple of women since then but that first one was my best relationship ever, and might forever be. There is something invaluable about taking a journey together as opposed to two people meeting each other at the end of it. Ever been ice-skating? Wonder what must compel most of those couples, old and young, to skate together even though all they do is fumble, hobble and fall around.
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That's just silly. No huge traumatic sexual experience in my past, so sorry to disappoint. It's important to me to be a proficient lover because I love fucking and really enjoy pleasing my partners. I would like to all let young men know that gaining a sexual education, like any other education, will serve them well in life. There is nothing grand or virtuous about an adult fumbling around in the bedroom, nothing.
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Now that's a much better and more agreeable POV than your first.