You can wait but at your age few women will forgo sex over a courtship that needs to be extended enough to be certain about marriage. They want to know all about you before taking a big chance on a life-partner.
And hell - from how you behave they'd probably think you have issues - attitudinal, emotional, ability - about sex. That may be why your date cheated - she didn't want to be cheated out of sex life while dating in exchange for a less-than-certain promise of a sex life later.
So from what you say you do have issues. Sorry. But to say the least, there is something unworldly and prudish to be age 29 and still holding out on sex for marriage while wondering about the big "performance.".
I'm a 29 m, and i'm still a virgin. Its hard being on
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You can wait but at your age few women will forgo sex over a courtship that needs to be extended enough to be certain about marriage. They want to know all about you before taking a big chance on a life-partner.
And hell - from how you behave they'd probably think you have issues - attitudinal, emotional, ability - about sex. That may be why your date cheated - she didn't want to be cheated out of sex life while dating in exchange for a less-than-certain promise of a sex life later.
So from what you say you do have issues. Sorry. But to say the least, there is something unworldly and prudish to be age 29 and still holding out on sex for marriage while wondering about the big "performance.".