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I'm waiting for marriage, that doesn't mean i don't date. One lady i dated couldn't wait till marriage and cheated on me. I'm just waiting on the right one. I'm trying my best. but my question is. When i am ready, is there anything i can do now to insure my performance is great for my wife?
Practice on some sex dolls. And its not normal because before you know it you will be a 40 year old virgin.
I'm a vergin too! And I'm waiting for marriage as well. Good job there is the right girl out there for you don't lose hope
I respect your beliefs so I'm not going to make fun of you for waiting. There's a whole lot you can do, but the normal way to do it is by having sex and learning from your partner. So you're in a quandary. The best thing you can do is go to Amazon and buy a good instructional book about sex.
I learned from an older woman who was all of 30 years old. She taught me what felt good to her and I think I ran a 4.0 grade point average because I listened to her every word and practiced assiduously. She was delirious with joy and I found the procedure to be much more exciting than masturbation although she was so highly sexed that she made me feel like a human dildo.
If you want to wait, more power to you but you might need to buy some salve for your mighty warrior if you are as randy as I am.
First let me say, way to go! Waiting until you are married is the right thing to do. I wish I had. You will have something so special to share with your wife. (Provided she is a virgin too) I have been married for 25 years, and when we were first married, the thought that I had sex prior to getting married was upsetting to my wife. (She was a virgin) Anyway, onto your question about performance once you get married. I am assuming that masturbation is not of limits for you. I recommend that when you masturbate, take your time! Work up to the point just before you get the urge to ejaculate and stop! By clenching / tightening your anus muscles it will prevent the flow of sperm. Wait a couple of minutes and repeat, as long as you are able. This will lengthen the time it takes to reach full climax when you eventually have sex on your wedding night. If masturbation is off limits also, which is a very noble thing in the scope of waiting until you are married, do not worry about performing during sex. Let nature take its course. If your future wife is also a virgin, you will both be in uncharted territory. It's about the act of making love, not how long you can last. If your focus is completely on satisfying and making your wife the object of pleasure and your motives are true, you will be just fine. I hope this helps. I'm sure, I know you will be just fine. In 25 years you will look back to this time of your life and ask, what was all the fuss about. I wish you the very best in your quest to be all you can be to the wife I know is out there wait on you also.
"Waiting until you are married is the right thing to do"
No, it's an option, but there's no right or wrong choice really. I have no regrets not waiting, I might never get married.
^ I support this.
This site is full of haters, I restored a thumb that was taken away from you.
Unless it's due to some religious regulations, I don't see a point to waiting until marriage. It's just sex; no big deal.
What can you do to improve your performance? Have sex. There's no way around it.
Well as I am one myself, I guess that the answer is Practice, Practice, Practice...
Keep strong! I'm so happy to hear their are men out there waiting til marriage.. But the only thing I can think of is by reading about sex in a marriage? Haha idk??
This made my penis hard, please, please yourself with compulsive masturbation and lots of hentai, PENIS
Sex should be after marriage not vice versa. So i agree with you. BRAVO Brotha.
Now one thing I must say here....The term Virgin is a pronoun describing a vaginal state, so men can not be virgins as they do not possess the vagina. You guys must come up with a more befitting term here!!
You can wait but at your age few women will forgo sex over a courtship that needs to be extended enough to be certain about marriage. They want to know all about you before taking a big chance on a life-partner.
And hell - from how you behave they'd probably think you have issues - attitudinal, emotional, ability - about sex. That may be why your date cheated - she didn't want to be cheated out of sex life while dating in exchange for a less-than-certain promise of a sex life later.
So from what you say you do have issues. Sorry. But to say the least, there is something unworldly and prudish to be age 29 and still holding out on sex for marriage while wondering about the big "performance.".
What if a womam layed on your bed butt naked and wet for you.
What would you do?
Virginity is not dignity. It's lack of opportunity. Seriously, you believe that some invisible dude in the sky watches you doing it and cares whether you signed some papers that seal your relationship first? Your loss. Who knows you'll die in a car crash a virgin. Just Do It!
Hm.. let her be aware before you get into bed with her that you are a virgin. That way she will have no expectations, you can experiment, and she can show you the ropes. That's your best bet.