I'm 17 now and i never had a gf before

is this too wierd? i looks pretty attractive in the mirror but some of my friends say i am not
i am very depressed because of the fact that all my friends
had a gf but i am not
and i never really talk too much to girls before
i am so afraid that i would even never get a gf
and i will die alone
plz help me i am so depressed by this
btw my english is not very good
so sorry for bad english

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Comments ( 12 )
  • Pumpurrnickel

    It's completely normal to not have a girlfriend at that age. You are extremely young and have years and years to get one. Don't worry about it.

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  • bob7

    Looks arent everything

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    • redrainbow22

      Looks are nice, but they really arent the biggest thing in the world.

      They really dont matter.

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      • Pumpurrnickel

        Yes they do. Looks are your very first impression of a person. Say whatever you want, but the fact is we all somewhat judge someone on how someone looks. Besides, when was the last time you saw a hot guy with a really ugly girl, or vice versa?

        https://www.quora.com/Do-looks-really-matter-in-life-Do-good-looking-people-have-an-advantage

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        • redrainbow22

          Those couples are out there.

          But no they dont.

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          • Pumpurrnickel

            Did you even go to my link? The fact is, they do matter. I've shown you proof on why. Being in denial about it won't change that.

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            • redrainbow22

              Do you want to make people more artificial?

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            • redrainbow22

              I dont care about your link.

              "Proof"

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  • Becky95

    Date younger girls! Like 3 or 4 years younger!

    Younger teenage girls love older teenage guys who seem like they are cool and in control!

    My first date when I was still just 12, had not yet turned 13 year and was with a 17 year old guy who was a Senior in high school who I met at a church youth group lock in!

    We were at a church youth group lock in - my friend went to the church and then I was there for a Friday and Saturday church lock in and we started talking and hanging out at youth group after

    I don't think he knew exactly how old I was just that I was younger than him - maybe he didn't want to know

    We had a lock-in at church and we're playing this massive game of hide and seek in the dark

    I asked if he knew any good hiding places and he told me to follow him

    My friend was off having some silly 6th grade boy she liked

    I was chasing a real man like a 12 grader!

    Anyways he took me to this like super cool upstairs office of the music choir director and we hid in the closet in the back just him and me

    Our bodies were pressed right up against eash other in the dark closet in the choir directors office at church that night

    Being pushed right up next to him gave me chills - his skin was touching mine

    I was self conscious that he would smell that I had smoked cigarettes just before the church

    But he was cool with it

    Eventually we starting touching each other

    Then making out

    I lost my virginity that night in a church lol!

    Anyways you'll be fine!

    Date younger girls!

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  • Thatlovelygirl

    Awwwe !! Don't feel like that. Keep waiting you will find someone dont rush it and don't just go and mess with someone. Know what you are looking for. Get your hopes up. No one is ugly

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