Agree to disagree. I get you're going for constructive. But there are a lot of healthy girls who don't attract guys for a variety of other reasons. Of course if OP is severely over weight then you're right. But the danger in making the assumption is there are so many girls that are at a healthy weight but still feel the need to lose weight. Idk I've just had a lot of beautiful girls and family close to me with eating disorders/ low self esteem, warped sense of reality so it hits home for me. Totally see you are trying to help with a good heart. I guess it's just chances are she being overweight is the thing I can't see, because I've seen girls at all weights not be approached for different reasons.
I'm 21-guys never ask me out or show much interest.
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Agree to disagree. I get you're going for constructive. But there are a lot of healthy girls who don't attract guys for a variety of other reasons. Of course if OP is severely over weight then you're right. But the danger in making the assumption is there are so many girls that are at a healthy weight but still feel the need to lose weight. Idk I've just had a lot of beautiful girls and family close to me with eating disorders/ low self esteem, warped sense of reality so it hits home for me. Totally see you are trying to help with a good heart. I guess it's just chances are she being overweight is the thing I can't see, because I've seen girls at all weights not be approached for different reasons.