The problem is very few men have the confidence to talk to women as women think we do. We hide this from you women because if we show it we get judged by many women.
This is what a guy first thinks when a man likes a woman. I will write it in a way that shows you what goes on in a man's mind. I like this woman, she is pretty, she looks awesome but I don't know her and then we think:
1. Well, she is really pretty there is no way she is single so I will not bother talking to her and save her and myself the embarrassment.
2. I want to talk to her but she is way better looking than me there is no way a woman that looks like her would be into a guy like me so I won't bother.
3. I want to go and talk to her but I am scared to. Will I get in trouble?
4. I want to talk to her but how is she going to react if I do. Is she going to abuse, be nasty and evil like some women are when you approach them or is she friendly?
5. She has closed body language her arms are folded etc so I won't bother talking to her.
6. She has earphones in. This is going to be hard and may even come across as rude i won't bother.
7. I want to talk to her but o my gosh she has 3 of her friends with her nah I won't bother. The more friends a woman has around the more a guy is likely to think that.
I don't know I won't talk to her, I won't bother and then when guys get home we emotionally beat ourselves up and think maybe I should have just talked to her.
As you can see when it comes to talking to women we men don't have the confidence women think we do. We overthink it like crazy and think of everything that could go wrong and a lot of this comes from bad experiences in the past. All these thoughts I have mentioned are extremely common among men and really attractive women need to show they are single to increase their chances.
This is why women often stare at women but never go and talk to her.
Women need to show to men it is safe to come talk to them and that they want to be talked to. Women that smile, smirk and flirt etc succeed way more with men.
I'm 21-guys never ask me out or show much interest.
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The problem is very few men have the confidence to talk to women as women think we do. We hide this from you women because if we show it we get judged by many women.
This is what a guy first thinks when a man likes a woman. I will write it in a way that shows you what goes on in a man's mind. I like this woman, she is pretty, she looks awesome but I don't know her and then we think:
1. Well, she is really pretty there is no way she is single so I will not bother talking to her and save her and myself the embarrassment.
2. I want to talk to her but she is way better looking than me there is no way a woman that looks like her would be into a guy like me so I won't bother.
3. I want to go and talk to her but I am scared to. Will I get in trouble?
4. I want to talk to her but how is she going to react if I do. Is she going to abuse, be nasty and evil like some women are when you approach them or is she friendly?
5. She has closed body language her arms are folded etc so I won't bother talking to her.
6. She has earphones in. This is going to be hard and may even come across as rude i won't bother.
7. I want to talk to her but o my gosh she has 3 of her friends with her nah I won't bother. The more friends a woman has around the more a guy is likely to think that.
I don't know I won't talk to her, I won't bother and then when guys get home we emotionally beat ourselves up and think maybe I should have just talked to her.
As you can see when it comes to talking to women we men don't have the confidence women think we do. We overthink it like crazy and think of everything that could go wrong and a lot of this comes from bad experiences in the past. All these thoughts I have mentioned are extremely common among men and really attractive women need to show they are single to increase their chances.
This is why women often stare at women but never go and talk to her.
Women need to show to men it is safe to come talk to them and that they want to be talked to. Women that smile, smirk and flirt etc succeed way more with men.
Hope this helps. :)
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Spot on.
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Thank you mate. It amazes me just how blind many women are to this.
Bravo :)
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This is why men often stare at women but never go and talk to her.
This is spot on.
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Thank you very much.