I'm 20 and very sexually attracted to women 27-45?

So I am a 20 year old college student (male) and I find myself very attracted to much older women, like from 27-45. I don't want a relationship with a woman this old, more so just a sexual encounter. I always notice them when I am at the store, at work, or anywhere in public. Everytime I see an attractive older woman, I always fantasize about them non-stop. I can't help it. of course, I also like girls my own age, but I seem to be more attracted to older women. Is anyone else like this? (guys or girls)

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  • IveGotBallsOfSteal

    totally cool. go to a cougar bar.

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  • mandm

    I am totally attracted to guys between 18 and 25 and I am 46! I love a young guys body and sweetness. I also love to teach so it works well for me.

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    • BlackSheep1

      Are you saying you actually sleep with guys in that age range?

      If so, do you by chance live in Colorado? haha

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      • sunshinemoonlight

        haha lol

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  • RomanticNightmare

    No matter what the reason, sexual attraction is a matter of personal preference. I love men older then me by at least ten years. I like the security, the maturity, and the experience(whether sexual or emotional) that a person older then you is capable of giving. It's completely normal, and I don't think it's anything to worry over.
    Hope I could help!

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  • Alaskaraven

    Have ALWAYS had younger BF's. And cougar? That implies predatory. THEY chase ME. I was 21, he was 17 [and built like Taylor Lauton]. 1st hubby 3 yrs younger, 2nd one nearly 10 yrs younger, last BF 13 yrs younger and WOULD NOT LEAVE ME ALONE!! I think some of us are immature, and some of you are mentally older. Women tend to get more radical and fun [free-er, could care less,etc] as we get older, and men settle down, get more boring, so good match. Go have fun, just careful not to be hurtful... P.S. My mom lived w/ a guy for 5 yrs a year younger than I was- he was hot too...

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  • JDunsUSMC

    i feel exactly the same as you bro. its just the way i feel. There's no need to worry

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    • ishikaway

      im 20 but thats disgusting...sick, ewww.....

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      • TomatokarateBoss

        How do I do a -1

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  • soyouwantedtoknow

    Same fucking way. Straight out of The Graduate my friend.

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  • TomatokarateBoss

    35-45 is the best sex no doubt about that and thats scientificly proven. When women are at these ages they are the hornyest because theyr hormones tell them they need to have lots of sex since theyr biological clock ticks faster

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  • TheSweetLife

    I'm a 45 year old woman who typically dates younger men. The youngest that I've been with was 20. Of course I didn't expect anything long-term from him, but it was fun and it ended amicably. For me, a 10-12 year age gap works best for the type of relationship that I prefer. Most people assume that I'm 30-35 so it doesn't really feel taboo.
    My ex husband was 3 years older than me, but older men are less likely to approach me now. I think my energy level scares the hell outta them. Lol.....who knows.

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  • dopeXsweet

    Years old I meant lol

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  • dopeXsweet

    For some reason I have an attraction to younger men that look older! the funny thing is I never pursue, they flock to me! I'm only 28, but it's the 19-25 yr olds that always approach me. I agree with an above comment stating about the idea of "teaching"... I kinda like the way they look up to me because of who I am as a person and what I do for a living even though we are in the same age bracket. But they in turn must be about something too. Great sex omg lol

    Guys my age for some reason are a bore to me .
    And older guys--- while I fantasize about an older sexy dominant successful male fucking the sh*t out of me--- for some reason I hesitate to date them and never feel as comfortable or even as confident as if I was out with a younger guy.
    I totally wanna fk older guys though. Lol like 30-45

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    • enticing_ash

      Can u plz tell me how to get an older woman? How did those guys impress u?
      Suppose if I wanna take u on a date (well, not just a date, of course), what should I do?

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  • regisphilbin

    I have no preference for age in terms of attraction. "Old" people were young at one point, and young people will be "old" someday. I just don't see the point. No one can stop the clock. We really have no choice about getting older and need to learn to accept the fact.

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  • Cherrybombpieee

    I like older men and im 20 i like my men between 28 to 40 but just as a fling not a serious relationship but the thing i dont get is when young girls like older men i feel like its normal but why do u young guys like older women why would u go after something wrinkled, used and battered when u can go after something fresh and tight

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  • emptybliss

    Heyy man it's your personal view on things, people need to see that, if you like it then go for it, if not then don't.

    That's my opinion.

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  • barefoot09

    Usually not but lately I've been interested in older women, the more sophisticated, intellectual, strong-minded type. The one I fancy in particular drives me wild.

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  • mandm

    @Blacksheep1
    Are you on Messenger by any chance?

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  • mandm

    @BlackSheep1
    I want to very badly! I love younger guys...everything about them. I haven't done it but want to. Not in Colorado tho :(

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    • Ellenna

      Your earlier post made it seem you'd already had sex with younger guys and I even became envious of you!

      So what's stopping you?

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  • Schythl

    I'd love the idea of an older girlfriend.

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  • screaminasian

    i don't know why people are acting like this is a bad thing, women that age are VERY sexual and are extremely grateful to get a young guy. i'm jealous of u, man

    live it up!

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  • lethal4483

    It's very normal I think, I started developing a fondness for women when I was around that age as well. Then when I had my first encounter with an older women at, I think 22, and she was 30 . That fondness grew even more, even though it was just a hook up. For me I think it's that mature fame, everything is filled out, and just the maturity level in general. Not to mention they are very experience in the bedroom, more willing to try new things and most love to suck cock.

    My advice is why don't you get out and dabble in it a little bit. Women reach their sexual peak in their 30s, even after. So they're just as horny as you. Trust me there plenty of older women that like younger guys. Just go on myspace or something, trust me once you hook up with one, you'll want more.

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  • DiscoDuck

    I used to be attracted to older women too.

    When I was 15 I had a 19yr old gf.

    When I was 17 another gf was 25.

    Then I had a couple of older women in their 30's and one in her 40's when I was 27.

    But when I turned maybe 35 or so...older women just didn't do it for me any more. My friends mother who is in her 50's wants me badly but I just keep saying no and avoid her. Young girls still don't do anything for me, but women close to my age are appealing.

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  • realworldperson

    yes it is normal, attraction is something you cannot help, it is genetics.

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  • i think you have a problem there bud...

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    • Ellenna

      And the problem is?

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  • alexisfreak

    I think that is weird. Younger girls are so much more sexier. Plus, better sex!

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    • Ellenna

      What ignorant generalisations! Sex is usually better with someone with more experience,you have a youth fetish

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    • IveGotBallsOfSteal

      it's all about point of view. I personally agree with the author. I find younger girls to easy because they're insecure, not confident sexually, not to mention if they look too young, it's a little creepy. Older women, my friend. Just my opinion.

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