The first comment makes sense, and he is right. But, hey I know how it feels cuz Strangely I am in the EXACT situation. Only difference is that I'm 21.
The thing of it is, you really just have to bite the bullet and go for it; meaning, if you do see her, even if she is with friends or alone, go out there and talk. I know it sounds like a nightmare, but that's kinda the only way it would work. Like 04zx6r said, it'll build your confidence up and it displays confidence to her that you're going up to her and talking.
Think of things to say beforehand that will make you comfortable and get things going. I know, the first step will be hard, but it'll only get better.
I am trying now, and am making progress. Everyone's not the same and people like us have a bit of a harder time trying to get things going. But once you take that first step, you'll find it easier to do to other girls you like.
I'm 22 and still don't know how to talk to girls/women!
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The first comment makes sense, and he is right. But, hey I know how it feels cuz Strangely I am in the EXACT situation. Only difference is that I'm 21.
The thing of it is, you really just have to bite the bullet and go for it; meaning, if you do see her, even if she is with friends or alone, go out there and talk. I know it sounds like a nightmare, but that's kinda the only way it would work. Like 04zx6r said, it'll build your confidence up and it displays confidence to her that you're going up to her and talking.
Think of things to say beforehand that will make you comfortable and get things going. I know, the first step will be hard, but it'll only get better.
I am trying now, and am making progress. Everyone's not the same and people like us have a bit of a harder time trying to get things going. But once you take that first step, you'll find it easier to do to other girls you like.
Hope that helped my friend.