I'm 18 and i've never had a boyfriend or been kissed.

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I'm 18th. On July 28 I will be 19th. I remeber I always thought that for the time I was 18 I'd have a boyfriend but I don't. I don't think it's my looks since people keep telling me I'm good looking (and i mean random people). It's just when people are talking about their past boyfriends or how many people they've kissed I feel stupid and left out.But I do feel a bit of a loser for not being kissed at 18.I used to be so depressed about this when I was younger but now I don't feel so as bad about it, I still want a boyfriend.I think I'm missing an important part of being young. I'm not a geek, I'm a normal girl.

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  • deb
    12 years ago | pl

    Im tired of stories like this.

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  • ToasterClock
    12 years ago | pl

    im exactly the same... i get told im pretty by randoms and strangers ask for my number. but like, at school ive never been asked out or anything.. im 18.. i feel real left out. its normal cause youre not the only one.

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    • CurlyH
      10 years ago | pl

      Yeah it's normal because, most guys are now scared of asking out girls that are prettier than the rest bunch.

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  • terminator3
    12 years ago | pl

    you can kiss me whenever you want sweetthing ;)

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  • Crunchy_taco
    12 years ago | pl

    It's normal that happened to me too. just wait someone will come along. But if you can't wait then I suggest you take charge and ask a decent person out.

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  • itsmadness
    12 years ago | pl

    Perfectly normal. Don't worry about it!

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  • Adam_6996
    12 years ago | pl

    its normal...n i dont fink u should feel stupid bout it coz den u gona go n bang some random guy which i fink is THE STUPIDEST thing dat a girl wud do..coz ive seen it before..guys like virgins more trust me...just be more relaxed n start lookin for someone dat u might be interested in..u might be too quiet..

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  • blondie-pie99
    12 years ago | pl

    I'm the same I've never been kissed,never had a proper boyfriend and I'm not ashamed to say I'm still a virgin and Im 18.
    It first when I was 15-17 it bugged me but I don't care

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  • Cheet0
    7 years ago | pl

    24, soon to be 25 yo guy here, never kissed, and no GF either... :-P

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  • Short&2thepoint
    11 years ago | pl

    Could be worse. My first girlfriend ended up being a psychotic special Ed girl that ended up breaking up with me. Looked normal, just thought she was shy. Turns out she has no mental capabilities in the form of math, reading, and writing. My first kiss? We were drunk and she was having parental issues. Wasn't that enjoyable and felt stupid the next day. At least you're waiting until you're older and not as naive.

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  • [email protected]
    11 years ago | pl

    Maybe you should try attending CHURCH,or something along those lines.

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  • LOUi_CUDi
    11 years ago | pl

    guys are just scare to get rejected thats why they dont ask u out.. I say it would happen just relax n wait. Kiss is nothing. Doesnt feel like nothing just lips touching other lips. . I understand u want bf n all thatt love n affection. Just relax when times is right it would happen

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  • KokoroComplex
    11 years ago | pl

    My birthday is in a couple weeks and I'm turning 19. Join the club

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  • winterwonderland94
    12 years ago | pl

    Yeah don't sweat it:)

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  • xdresser
    12 years ago | pl

    Id be honour too kiss you. I was like you at that age and took me till I was 23 to lose my virginity to a much older 37 yr old women who was a close friend and neighbour. So id look after you and you wouldn't think twice about me taking your virginity. It would be in a romantic place for the weekend and buy you sexual lingerie and chocalates and just be your servant

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  • Bubblegum_Ninja
    12 years ago | pl

    It's not normal to not have been kissed by 18 but it's nothing to be ashamed of!

    Love/crushes (etc) come and go. Some people get lucky some don't.

    Some people NEED a bf/gf and some people are cool without one.

    I understand that if you've never had a bf or been kissed then you'll desire too but never be ashamed of it.

    It'll happen and it'll be all the more sweeter for it. Don't stress. Relax and go with the flow.

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