I'm 20 and i've been in only one relationship in my life

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And that was 2 years ago.

I'm in my third year of college. I'm a theatre major. Most of my friends are gay boys, but that doesn't keep other theatre girls from getting dates. I'm black and not ugly.

2 and 1/2 years of college and I haven't met a single person who I am interested in and who is also interested in me. Most of the time, I have crushes on people from a distance but no one ever seems to think of me as more than just a friend.

I feel like there is something wrong with me.

Is it normal to have had only one relationship at the age of 20 and then to not meet anyone in college?

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Based on 36 votes (30 yes)
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  • sweetangel_894
    12 years ago

    You should decide what's "normal" for you. I'm a 22 year old attractive female that hasn't been in a proper relationship ever! I have insecurities issues that stop me from being in one. Count yourself lucky that you don't have to hide under make up to fit into society.

    Go out to more bars and clubs with friends and just socialize more and you will eventually meet someone.

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  • collins1
    14 years ago

    it is normal to feel the way you feel.you must remember that you are so young but i did feel the same way when i was your age. some times you just have to pursuit happiness.

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  • BOYracer88
    14 years ago

    what the hell are you talking about thats what this website is all about, advice

    dont worry about it they say love comes to you when youre not looking

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  • toddinator716
    14 years ago

    I'm in the same boat, completely normal, don't let others tell you otherwise.

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  • xino00
    14 years ago

    another excuse to ask for advice by another person.

    when will this sh* stop? people should use the damn forum for this

    anyway, people have different tastes in others. Some girls like rude/thug boys while others like quiet boys.

    Just wait, someone who fits with you will come.
    and if people don't see you as a friend then they don't respect you or are not royal to you.

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