a child will ruin your ability to get higher education, which will lead to less job opportunities, and lead to finical problems for your family which would be unfair to your kid. you will not get the chance to travel, or ever have a normal dating life. you will always have baggage in the dating world. plus if you raise a kid without a father, or with a father who doesn't necessarily want a child, you will increase her/his risk of having daddy issues and getting into trouble- especially if you are always working to support the kid, and there is no other parental figure around to guide her/him.
my advice is that you are young, you have not matured enough to fully know who you are or what you want.
I'm 17 and I seriously want to have a child.
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a child will ruin your ability to get higher education, which will lead to less job opportunities, and lead to finical problems for your family which would be unfair to your kid. you will not get the chance to travel, or ever have a normal dating life. you will always have baggage in the dating world. plus if you raise a kid without a father, or with a father who doesn't necessarily want a child, you will increase her/his risk of having daddy issues and getting into trouble- especially if you are always working to support the kid, and there is no other parental figure around to guide her/him.
my advice is that you are young, you have not matured enough to fully know who you are or what you want.