Thank you. It is amazing how moved and comforted I can be by the words of a stranger.
He actually does have kids, and that is a big obstacle for me, having to accept that they will always be in his life. However, they are beautiful, lovely kids, and adore me. As for the ex wife, at first I was a bit jealous, but then I got to witness a couple of their fights. She is a nosy, manipulative, unstable person. He is not into her at all anymore.
I am so sorry about your friend. I really do feel for her deeply, because the word gets out, the more I know people assume me to be a desperate slut, and him a cradle-robber. However, I must say that I, unlike your friend, would refuse to ever be with someone who is married. I still believe marriage is a holy covenant, which I mean to keep, and do not wish to aid others in violating. I am not passing judgement on your friend though, and still sympathize with her deeply. It is sad that there are so many guys like that in our world.
You seem like a wise, caring, understanding, and knowledgeable person. I certainly hope you have found that special someone who you love, and who loves you for being the lovely person that you are.
God bless you too!
I'm 18. He's 34. IIN?
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Thank you. It is amazing how moved and comforted I can be by the words of a stranger.
He actually does have kids, and that is a big obstacle for me, having to accept that they will always be in his life. However, they are beautiful, lovely kids, and adore me. As for the ex wife, at first I was a bit jealous, but then I got to witness a couple of their fights. She is a nosy, manipulative, unstable person. He is not into her at all anymore.
I am so sorry about your friend. I really do feel for her deeply, because the word gets out, the more I know people assume me to be a desperate slut, and him a cradle-robber. However, I must say that I, unlike your friend, would refuse to ever be with someone who is married. I still believe marriage is a holy covenant, which I mean to keep, and do not wish to aid others in violating. I am not passing judgement on your friend though, and still sympathize with her deeply. It is sad that there are so many guys like that in our world.
You seem like a wise, caring, understanding, and knowledgeable person. I certainly hope you have found that special someone who you love, and who loves you for being the lovely person that you are.
God bless you too!