I don't think that it's normal. Depending on where you live, weight should have nothing to do with it. All the chubby girls that I know have managed boyfriends.
I think that your shyness might be a problem. People like people who shower attention on them. If you're not forward, they won't pay attention to you or they might think you don't want to be bothered. They don't want to be rejected either, you know.
I think you should be more aggressive. Don't expect the dating/social scene to suddenly change to accommodate you just because you turned 18, as some people seem to be suggesting. If you never change, why would any of the people around you?
I'm 18, a virgin, never had a boyfriend and have never been kissed.
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I don't think that it's normal. Depending on where you live, weight should have nothing to do with it. All the chubby girls that I know have managed boyfriends.
I think that your shyness might be a problem. People like people who shower attention on them. If you're not forward, they won't pay attention to you or they might think you don't want to be bothered. They don't want to be rejected either, you know.
I think you should be more aggressive. Don't expect the dating/social scene to suddenly change to accommodate you just because you turned 18, as some people seem to be suggesting. If you never change, why would any of the people around you?