You don't have to be able to see yourself with someone in the long term period to have a fruitfull and enjoyable relationship. Even if you did chances are you will be strongly disappointed with the real outcome especially if your young. We're conditioned with a false sense of the definition. Guy meets girls falls in love white picket fence marriage kids happily ever after. It's beyond cliche and sooo over rated. If this were realistic I guess divorce wouldn't be at an all time high and your heart wouldn't be crushed trying to achieve it 15 times before your 25. Guy 1 thats cool but until he's not hundreds of miles away and can give you an experience is worthless. Not to sound like a jerk but there's hundreds of guys in your school that can make you feel the same way if you open your eyes and mind/heart a little bit. Don't fall into the illusion just because one can no one else can. Its also possibly to love more than one person also. Whether you'd like to explore the both or one or five is purely choice despite popular belief does not make you a whore. Your just as entitled to your sexuality as a guy is. Some choose to some don't simple as that. Guy 2 it sounds like you got the hotts for. In my opinion much more suitable and realistic for you especially being young and in school. Short term long term who cares as long as your enjoying yourself. Being held down is not all its cracked up to be trust me. No matter what never emphasize the relationship more than yourself. Chances are.. even in marriages its not going to be "forever". When it comes to you on the other hand.. your stuck with you forever. Keep it light keep friends deep and just have fun like the last poster mentioned.Best wishes ;)
I love one guy but am crushing on someone else...
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You don't have to be able to see yourself with someone in the long term period to have a fruitfull and enjoyable relationship. Even if you did chances are you will be strongly disappointed with the real outcome especially if your young. We're conditioned with a false sense of the definition. Guy meets girls falls in love white picket fence marriage kids happily ever after. It's beyond cliche and sooo over rated. If this were realistic I guess divorce wouldn't be at an all time high and your heart wouldn't be crushed trying to achieve it 15 times before your 25. Guy 1 thats cool but until he's not hundreds of miles away and can give you an experience is worthless. Not to sound like a jerk but there's hundreds of guys in your school that can make you feel the same way if you open your eyes and mind/heart a little bit. Don't fall into the illusion just because one can no one else can. Its also possibly to love more than one person also. Whether you'd like to explore the both or one or five is purely choice despite popular belief does not make you a whore. Your just as entitled to your sexuality as a guy is. Some choose to some don't simple as that. Guy 2 it sounds like you got the hotts for. In my opinion much more suitable and realistic for you especially being young and in school. Short term long term who cares as long as your enjoying yourself. Being held down is not all its cracked up to be trust me. No matter what never emphasize the relationship more than yourself. Chances are.. even in marriages its not going to be "forever". When it comes to you on the other hand.. your stuck with you forever. Keep it light keep friends deep and just have fun like the last poster mentioned.Best wishes ;)