Get out of the marriage now. No matter what kind of F-ed up logic has you convinced that staying is what's best for anyone involved needs to be thrown out the window. Staying is nothing but selfish! How will it be for your child to grow up with parents in a loveless marriage? Probably misersble. Children aren't stupid and she will pick up on it. What about him? He thinks everything is cool. Let him go so maybe he can find happiness with someone who, I don't know, actually fucking loves him! If you are unhappy you will likely eventually whore it up and have an affar, if you haven't already. All the while he will continue to think he is with a faithful and loving woman.
So, put on your big girl panties and muster up the courage to do what is right! Everyone will eventually be happier, even you.
I love my husband, but I am not in-love with him.
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Get out of the marriage now. No matter what kind of F-ed up logic has you convinced that staying is what's best for anyone involved needs to be thrown out the window. Staying is nothing but selfish! How will it be for your child to grow up with parents in a loveless marriage? Probably misersble. Children aren't stupid and she will pick up on it. What about him? He thinks everything is cool. Let him go so maybe he can find happiness with someone who, I don't know, actually fucking loves him! If you are unhappy you will likely eventually whore it up and have an affar, if you haven't already. All the while he will continue to think he is with a faithful and loving woman.
So, put on your big girl panties and muster up the courage to do what is right! Everyone will eventually be happier, even you.