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is it really bad to love making your ex jealous? i've moved on, found someone new, and he still is just as miserable as he was.
so me being happy when he's put me through bad times, and him being miserable and jealous, I LOVE IT,
I didn't vote because you didn't specify whether you just ENJOY ("LOVE") it or you FEEL THE NEED. Loving it is normal, feeling the need? Not so normal.
You def have NOT moved on and you are obsessed with your ex boyfriend. This thing in your mind is more damaging to you emotionally and can lead to you becoming insensitive to others around you whether or not intentional. Enjoying news about his unhappiness displays that you have a malevolent nature and also a dependence to his mental frame of mind in order to determine how you will feel day to day. Your mind is holding you prisoner in the most unhealthy way, break those chains and move on quickly!!!
Unless it was his objective to put you through bad times, I really don't see the need to? Somehow it's just unnecessary and if you want to be the better person, that's really not the way to go about it.
But each to their own, it just seems to me that he's still part of your life, and even though you think you've moved on, if you're still trying to do things for/in spite of him, then it's well possible you haven't. You don't have to like him, but if you want to move on, leave him to his life, and get on with yours.
It shouldn't matter to u if he's jealous or not, if it does then u have not moved on and that might mean u still have feelings for him. It shouldn't matter just completely let him go.
yeah, exactly as Ollieo pointed out, it does not seem that you have moved on at all. The fact that he put you through bad times is sad, but the fact that his life is as miserable as it always was..haha..this is passion, baby! You are still very much tuned into him and please do not mix seeing someone new while staying vindictive and staying single as synonymous with happiness and miserable.
best of luck to you
Well success is the best "revenge", if he put you through bad times it'd be pretty human to gloat - privately, to just yourself of course.
But that you are that tied in to how he feels means you have not really let go. So let go. The next best thing revenge-wise to someone who has cheated you badly is to be in a point in your life where you just don't give a shit about them at all. That's sweet.