I honestly think this might be worth considering. I mean let's look at the facts.
• You think he would be an amazing husband
• You think he would be an amazing father
• You have an amazing friendship with him
• You give each other massages
• You literally fantasize about kissing him and having sex with him
That last part alone makes it a bit perplexing where the "just as a friend" talk is coming from. There's also the fact that you even felt the need to post this. I think the only "spark" you're missing is that oxytocin driven rush of newness when you first crush on someone, because you had the friendship already. If you're fantasizing about kissing and having sex with this guy in addition to loving him and wanting to be around him all day, "just friends" isn't the most accurate description of what's going on.
I think the bigger issue at hand is that you say he doesn't want a relationship with anyone right now. I suspect if he ends up with someone else when that changes you're not going to like that one fucking bit. So that's just something to think about it. The call is ultimately between the two of you though.
I love him but as a friend but he's a great partner?
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I honestly think this might be worth considering. I mean let's look at the facts.
• You think he would be an amazing husband
• You think he would be an amazing father
• You have an amazing friendship with him
• You give each other massages
• You literally fantasize about kissing him and having sex with him
That last part alone makes it a bit perplexing where the "just as a friend" talk is coming from. There's also the fact that you even felt the need to post this. I think the only "spark" you're missing is that oxytocin driven rush of newness when you first crush on someone, because you had the friendship already. If you're fantasizing about kissing and having sex with this guy in addition to loving him and wanting to be around him all day, "just friends" isn't the most accurate description of what's going on.
I think the bigger issue at hand is that you say he doesn't want a relationship with anyone right now. I suspect if he ends up with someone else when that changes you're not going to like that one fucking bit. So that's just something to think about it. The call is ultimately between the two of you though.