To be honest you won't like the answer but you really need to get some time and space between you and this guy. Alarm bells should start when he says he can't choose between you both and he is listening and doing what she tells him (removing you from Facebook etc).
Just see it from his view, he's got two girls here under his command - his current (I wouldn't say ex given the Facebook comments) and you as a back up. It is hard to take but you don't know what he is saying to her about you, playing you down.
Personally I would contact him and request he doesn't contact you for a while - if he truly loves you he will respect your space and sort himself out. Time apart gives you time to get your head around the situation - the more you contact him the more you torture yourself with the "what ifs". If he splits up with this girl and comes to you be very careful on how much you trust him, he needs to prove he can be trusted.
But believe me, it will be hard at first but the space will give you time to get your head around things.
tancho
thank you very much for your opinion i wish i can give you his mobile number to talk to him and told him everything i was thinking for what you told me to do and i took a space and realize that i cant live without him, he knows that and he knows how much i love him but he didnt care he always told me that he was with his ex- for 3 years and its difficult for him to forget her but i dont think he tells the truth he is still love her so much but when i ask him he always told me im still love her but not like the first , im sad coz everything he told me to do i do it, one time he told me to buy for him mobile blackberry and i brought it just to make him happy i always give him money once i give him money so he can travel with his friends to egypt , i always told him why you didnt told that girl to buy for you what you want why me he told me because im not shy from u but from her i shy, sometimes i think he just talk to me because i have money but i always say noway, once he told me if i want to get married the first person came on my mind you , he always say to me if i want to marry i choose you not her, but i think he didnt mean it he just say it because i didnt feel anything except that he still love her.. im tired i dont know what to do ? really im exhausted :(
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To be honest you won't like the answer but you really need to get some time and space between you and this guy. Alarm bells should start when he says he can't choose between you both and he is listening and doing what she tells him (removing you from Facebook etc).
Just see it from his view, he's got two girls here under his command - his current (I wouldn't say ex given the Facebook comments) and you as a back up. It is hard to take but you don't know what he is saying to her about you, playing you down.
Personally I would contact him and request he doesn't contact you for a while - if he truly loves you he will respect your space and sort himself out. Time apart gives you time to get your head around the situation - the more you contact him the more you torture yourself with the "what ifs". If he splits up with this girl and comes to you be very careful on how much you trust him, he needs to prove he can be trusted.
But believe me, it will be hard at first but the space will give you time to get your head around things.
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thank you very much for your opinion i wish i can give you his mobile number to talk to him and told him everything i was thinking for what you told me to do and i took a space and realize that i cant live without him, he knows that and he knows how much i love him but he didnt care he always told me that he was with his ex- for 3 years and its difficult for him to forget her but i dont think he tells the truth he is still love her so much but when i ask him he always told me im still love her but not like the first , im sad coz everything he told me to do i do it, one time he told me to buy for him mobile blackberry and i brought it just to make him happy i always give him money once i give him money so he can travel with his friends to egypt , i always told him why you didnt told that girl to buy for you what you want why me he told me because im not shy from u but from her i shy, sometimes i think he just talk to me because i have money but i always say noway, once he told me if i want to get married the first person came on my mind you , he always say to me if i want to marry i choose you not her, but i think he didnt mean it he just say it because i didnt feel anything except that he still love her.. im tired i dont know what to do ? really im exhausted :(