I love her more than anything, but i like to hurt her a little.

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I would die before I ever inflicted any serious pain or injury on the girl I love, but when we have sex, we both like me choking her. I do it *just* right--no permanent damage or unconsciousness, but undeniably violent. I'm also a little too big for her "down there" and we like when I hold her so she can't get away and give her all of it just until it hurts enough to make her shed a couple tears. Then I relent and I'm VERY sweet to her and extremely careful to make sure she's unharmed and feeling the utmost pleasure possible. Aside from all of this, we have amazing chemistry and we both consider this relationship to be far and away the greatest sexual experience either of us have ever known. I love her more than anything and she knows it, but we both feel like there's something a little bit wrong with us.

Are we fucked up or what?

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  • Callay_c
    12 years ago | pl

    As long as she enjoys it, I think it is totally normal.

    On the other hand, if you are getting off because you feel like she is genuinely traumatized or physically/emotionally damaged because of what you are doing, that is not "normal" or healthy.

    A lot of girls do enjoy being dominated or have masochistic tendencies, so it would be totally understandable if both of you are able to find pleasure in such experiences.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    You sound like my perfect guy! As long as it's fine between the two of you, carry on.

    Pain can be extremely pleasurable and I'd love a guy a choke me and just give me it, so your girlfriend is super lucky!

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  • cherokee_angel75
    12 years ago | pl

    My guy and I are the same, the pain is the most amazing pleasure!! We haven't even found our boundaries yet, lol

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  • catocato52028
    12 years ago | pl

    No you guys are just kinky

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  • jessicia16
    12 years ago | pl

    im the exact same way with my bf , or rather he's that way with me .... he doesnt choke coz i have a phobia of that , but hes definatly rough and will hit my butt untill it gets burised .... i do like it most every time ... the exceptions are when im really tired and not in the mood etc ,,, but if we went out on a date , to movies / dinner and then after , thats exactly the way i enjoy sex ... its really the only way i can get to climax properly ... i cant orgasm unless its a bit rough or adrenalin is involved , like being a bit scary or if he's calling me dirty words etc ,,, boom something happens and I just love it! ...... i think this is part of all our animalistic nature ,,, its the source of all passion and nothing to be looked at in a negative way ... your passionate ! dont vell bad about it ,,, and if your gf is anything like me , she probably craves it way more than she will admit.

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