I love her but i don't think she's sexy, iin?

We've known each other for a very long time and we've had feelings for each other that whole time. I love her to pieces, but I don't think she's sexy. This has been bothering me because, all of the couples I know/heard of say that they find their significant other to be sexy. IIN?

Is It Normal?
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  • Not at all! I occasionally feel this way I think we all do don't worry it's better to feel his way then the other way around just enjoy you time and her and you will realize what sexy means it's not alway looking at someone and feeling lust. One day you'll look at her and realize she is very sexy try a different perspective.

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  • It doesn't matter as long as it doesn't matter to you. But sexy is also about the way someone is as a person.

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  • Looks arent everything and dont listen to someone that only cares about looks because they are wrong Go with your heart because alot of people arent you and its sad Dont get tricked into anything people tell you

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  • Hmmm tricky one. I was friends with this guy, and we had amazing sexual chemistry (foreplay was exciting and awesome and he was an awesome dirty texter) but I just wasn't attracted to him physically. But gradually, as I grew to know him more and like him more, he became more attractive in my eyes.

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  • Not in the slightest?

    Maybe she's better off as just a friend that you love, rather than someone you're physically intimate with. Being attracted to your partner is important.

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