As you say, who we choose to spend our time with should be a choice we're free to make.
However, you're stereotyping if you believe all people of a certain skin tone are nicer than those of any other shade, and contrary to what you say, you are judging people by the colour of their skin. You may be flipping the prejudice from its most common form, but you're still being racist.
There are people (guys, mainly) who have a fetish for women of a certain skin colour. Fetishes always objectify some aspect of the other person. Whether it's breasts, feet, hair, hands, skin-colour or whatever, the fetishist focuses on that particular aspect rather than seeing the other person as a fully rounded human being.
How is anything I said come out as racist? I’ve dated my share of white, Hispanic, and found that African American women are more down to earth and attractive in many ways beyond the physical.
I love African American women
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As you say, who we choose to spend our time with should be a choice we're free to make.
However, you're stereotyping if you believe all people of a certain skin tone are nicer than those of any other shade, and contrary to what you say, you are judging people by the colour of their skin. You may be flipping the prejudice from its most common form, but you're still being racist.
There are people (guys, mainly) who have a fetish for women of a certain skin colour. Fetishes always objectify some aspect of the other person. Whether it's breasts, feet, hair, hands, skin-colour or whatever, the fetishist focuses on that particular aspect rather than seeing the other person as a fully rounded human being.
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How is anything I said come out as racist? I’ve dated my share of white, Hispanic, and found that African American women are more down to earth and attractive in many ways beyond the physical.