I have no clue if he was scared tosee a doctor when he started having problems, but I can imagine so. I'm scared to see doctors too and so are a lot of people but if you really need help and trying to fix it by yourself is not working there comes a point where you have to admit to yourself that you need professional help and need to seek a doctor in order to get the help you need. Think of your brain and your mental well being as just as much a part of your body as anything else (which it truly is). If you had a broken leg, you would need medical treatment, correct? You wouldn't just keep on living with that broken leg would you? You have to do what is best for you in order for you to better your life.
Also I should add that I think it may be even harder for you to seek help because it doesn't sound like your family is very supportive at all. My friend has a very supportive mom who got him to seek help as soon as possible. It doesn't sound like you have anything like that for you. It sounds like you have to be brave now and do whats best for you, look after yourself best you can. There is no shame in seeing a doctor, they are there to help.
thank you all most made me cry i can feel the compassion in your wirting and your right about everything i never had any support and no love no compassion just being told what to do and being yelled at most my life.
but i would like to add that i had done good things with my family like we have are good days and good moments but its rare and my aunt did so much for me its more like my personal problem also with mixed with alot of other stuff.
i had good moments in my life with my family but i nothing like love are compassion but i can say my family had there own problems serious problems them selves i just think they did't had are where given love so was not been able to show me love.
all i do all day everyday is be on the computer and watch tv i may cook dinner tho and clean up check the mail but never had a job scared to get a job scared to work hard i feel like most the time rather then anything else.
and i refuse anyone to help me cause again i think they mite hurt me cause there's people out there that well win your trust and then destroy you afther words.
i'm so terrified to be homeless and to be indipendient i'm scared to make choices my self i'm just scared to live.
if i had a family like him that show me there heart and that tell me they love me and have good morals and show they love me rather then play mind games on and off then i well be good.
imagen someone you trusted to konw something about you that would hurt you badly i'm not saying bad i mean make you feel like killing your self then they use this on you on and off to destroy you and control you and leave you defenceless and also make other ppeople hate you.
I didn't mean to imply that you never had any good times with your family, I'm sure you have. It doesn't sound like they are so horrible either, it just sounds like they do not understand your illness and therefore do not understand some of the things that you do. I'm sure there are many things that you have yet to learn about it as well. Right now, it just sounds like they don't know any better. The best you can try to do is to try and educate them about it so that maybe they can have a little bit more understanding and compassion.
omg i wrote so much but can you please read it this would really help and reply besides i think you would find what i wrote interesting.
they don't konw how to love are compassion they don't konw what to say are show love to me my one of my sister never told me she loved me for years i can't just talk to them as a matter of fact they know what i do and i think they do understand i just think they don't care. living with them is a emotional reck its depression.
i think they took there problems out on me when ever they can its like the more i do the more they want and i cant do that cause i have my own life to live you see what i'm saying.
i think in every family they sapose to teach the young adults about life and teach them to be independent and talk to them about there life that never happend to me neither my whole family even are parents.
i just feel like i cant express myself with out being expolited.
my sister lie to me all the time just today she trying to spend all my food stamps so she can save her own and if she buy anything and put it in the friedge and someone touch it she want them to pay for it again and knowing she got over 200$ of food stamps her self.
its really a lot worse then you think to be honest just being around her makes me sick to my stomach and my father also feels the same way and also she ask me to go to the store with her then when we got home she like can you clean the bath i said why don't you i just went to the store with you she said quote you did't went to the store with me i went for my self unquote.
and everything everything EVERYTHING i do wrong she use it to make me feel bad and make me think i'm wrong. it can be simply anything anything at all.
and my dad want me to take care of him and i'm getting tired of it and i'm doing it much so he threating to kick me out even tho he never did anything for me he never been a father figure.
its like my mom and dad got togeather and start haveing kids with out thinking and my mom told me she had us only cause my dad wanted us and my dad once said like a few months back
quote i did't made yah god made yah unquote he also said quote yah grown i got no more kids yah can live on yah own all my kids grown now unquote and i'm thinking as he say's this well if you would of been a loveing father maybe we would not be living with you.
sense i was about 9 years old i lived with my grandma untill i was like 18 then i lived with my sister BIGGEST MISSTAKE IN MY LIFE then i moved to my firends then i moved to my grandmas again then i moved to my aunts then i moved to my moms then i moved to my dad's when i was 24 now i'm 26.
i did apply for my own apartment at the age of 18 but i was scared of getting my own place and i did had a interview for a job at 15 but i was scared of that my whole teen years been wasted cause of fear and hopelessness no job no girlfriend no car no place
when a person in there teens that's when they sapose to be most active and getting ready for life and moving out of the house and being out there and becomeing independent thinking of there self and there future and planing and thinking hard about what they really want in life diging deep in there self in there mind there body and there soul trying to find there self out and explorering the world and everything in it and also sex and everything in it and figureing people out learning as much as possible for there future and haveing as much hope as they can.
but me i was in my basement on the computer and hanging with my so called friends i did't want nothing but to die and i still do i just missed out on my teens years with carelessness and i knew what was best for me i knew what i was doing i knew what i really wanted just i felt dead insides.
i was thinking about love and god and nothing more i did't think like other teens just haveing sex haveing fun no love no truthfulness nothing just going out there and thinking of my self as better then all and doing what ever i can to get what i want selfishly i was't like that i cared for other's i gave to other's i preach to other's and though this i was traped in the selfishness of others witch destroyed me and end up makeing me destory my self.
i live off my mom and dad and i'm 26
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i keep being told that but i'm scared to see a doctor.
is this normal have your friend been scared also to see a doctor
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I have no clue if he was scared tosee a doctor when he started having problems, but I can imagine so. I'm scared to see doctors too and so are a lot of people but if you really need help and trying to fix it by yourself is not working there comes a point where you have to admit to yourself that you need professional help and need to seek a doctor in order to get the help you need. Think of your brain and your mental well being as just as much a part of your body as anything else (which it truly is). If you had a broken leg, you would need medical treatment, correct? You wouldn't just keep on living with that broken leg would you? You have to do what is best for you in order for you to better your life.
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Also I should add that I think it may be even harder for you to seek help because it doesn't sound like your family is very supportive at all. My friend has a very supportive mom who got him to seek help as soon as possible. It doesn't sound like you have anything like that for you. It sounds like you have to be brave now and do whats best for you, look after yourself best you can. There is no shame in seeing a doctor, they are there to help.
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thank you all most made me cry i can feel the compassion in your wirting and your right about everything i never had any support and no love no compassion just being told what to do and being yelled at most my life.
but i would like to add that i had done good things with my family like we have are good days and good moments but its rare and my aunt did so much for me its more like my personal problem also with mixed with alot of other stuff.
i had good moments in my life with my family but i nothing like love are compassion but i can say my family had there own problems serious problems them selves i just think they did't had are where given love so was not been able to show me love.
all i do all day everyday is be on the computer and watch tv i may cook dinner tho and clean up check the mail but never had a job scared to get a job scared to work hard i feel like most the time rather then anything else.
and i refuse anyone to help me cause again i think they mite hurt me cause there's people out there that well win your trust and then destroy you afther words.
i'm so terrified to be homeless and to be indipendient i'm scared to make choices my self i'm just scared to live.
if i had a family like him that show me there heart and that tell me they love me and have good morals and show they love me rather then play mind games on and off then i well be good.
imagen someone you trusted to konw something about you that would hurt you badly i'm not saying bad i mean make you feel like killing your self then they use this on you on and off to destroy you and control you and leave you defenceless and also make other ppeople hate you.
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I didn't mean to imply that you never had any good times with your family, I'm sure you have. It doesn't sound like they are so horrible either, it just sounds like they do not understand your illness and therefore do not understand some of the things that you do. I'm sure there are many things that you have yet to learn about it as well. Right now, it just sounds like they don't know any better. The best you can try to do is to try and educate them about it so that maybe they can have a little bit more understanding and compassion.
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omg i wrote so much but can you please read it this would really help and reply besides i think you would find what i wrote interesting.
they don't konw how to love are compassion they don't konw what to say are show love to me my one of my sister never told me she loved me for years i can't just talk to them as a matter of fact they know what i do and i think they do understand i just think they don't care. living with them is a emotional reck its depression.
i think they took there problems out on me when ever they can its like the more i do the more they want and i cant do that cause i have my own life to live you see what i'm saying.
i think in every family they sapose to teach the young adults about life and teach them to be independent and talk to them about there life that never happend to me neither my whole family even are parents.
i just feel like i cant express myself with out being expolited.
my sister lie to me all the time just today she trying to spend all my food stamps so she can save her own and if she buy anything and put it in the friedge and someone touch it she want them to pay for it again and knowing she got over 200$ of food stamps her self.
its really a lot worse then you think to be honest just being around her makes me sick to my stomach and my father also feels the same way and also she ask me to go to the store with her then when we got home she like can you clean the bath i said why don't you i just went to the store with you she said quote you did't went to the store with me i went for my self unquote.
and everything everything EVERYTHING i do wrong she use it to make me feel bad and make me think i'm wrong. it can be simply anything anything at all.
and my dad want me to take care of him and i'm getting tired of it and i'm doing it much so he threating to kick me out even tho he never did anything for me he never been a father figure.
its like my mom and dad got togeather and start haveing kids with out thinking and my mom told me she had us only cause my dad wanted us and my dad once said like a few months back
quote i did't made yah god made yah unquote he also said quote yah grown i got no more kids yah can live on yah own all my kids grown now unquote and i'm thinking as he say's this well if you would of been a loveing father maybe we would not be living with you.
sense i was about 9 years old i lived with my grandma untill i was like 18 then i lived with my sister BIGGEST MISSTAKE IN MY LIFE then i moved to my firends then i moved to my grandmas again then i moved to my aunts then i moved to my moms then i moved to my dad's when i was 24 now i'm 26.
i did apply for my own apartment at the age of 18 but i was scared of getting my own place and i did had a interview for a job at 15 but i was scared of that my whole teen years been wasted cause of fear and hopelessness no job no girlfriend no car no place
when a person in there teens that's when they sapose to be most active and getting ready for life and moving out of the house and being out there and becomeing independent thinking of there self and there future and planing and thinking hard about what they really want in life diging deep in there self in there mind there body and there soul trying to find there self out and explorering the world and everything in it and also sex and everything in it and figureing people out learning as much as possible for there future and haveing as much hope as they can.
but me i was in my basement on the computer and hanging with my so called friends i did't want nothing but to die and i still do i just missed out on my teens years with carelessness and i knew what was best for me i knew what i was doing i knew what i really wanted just i felt dead insides.
i was thinking about love and god and nothing more i did't think like other teens just haveing sex haveing fun no love no truthfulness nothing just going out there and thinking of my self as better then all and doing what ever i can to get what i want selfishly i was't like that i cared for other's i gave to other's i preach to other's and though this i was traped in the selfishness of others witch destroyed me and end up makeing me destory my self.