Come on. Would you date a guy who, in a previous life, slept with 3 of your good friends. All of whom you talk to on a regular basis? Imagine the wedding. :X lol
I would date a guy who slept with 5 of my friends, and invite them over to see if they all wanted to have some fun together provided they were disease free.
But I don't have time for this really, I've seen the long winded responses you post and I hate that shit. Win your argument... by saying more than the other person. ;P
Doesn't sound like you have a big, loving heart if all you can see is faults in everyone (besides yourself) and think you deserve something you very well may not.
Something's out of balance here, obviously. Are you approaching girls you feel are up to your standards? If so, are you immediately getting shot down?
*smh* I don't at all think he's just going around looking at every single little bitty fault of this girl! It seems to me that there are just some hangups that he can't really let go of. EVERYONE has standards. And people should have standards! His just happens to be that he doesn't want to date a skank. I wouldn't particularly want to date a skank either. It's not fun getting leftovers. What's so wrong about having standards about who you date? I believe you shouldn't lower your standards just to find someone to be with.
I cannot help but to agree with you. It seems that the people who are severely bothered by my statement are those who've been especially promiscuous themselves at one time in their life, predictably, and consider promiscuity a trait that I must look past because "everyone" has their faults. Truthfully, I don't think anyone wants a skank, but that's difficult to not stumble over. So, if I have do date a skank, I rather not date one that has particularly slept with a plethora of my mates. Not only would that make me look bad and stupid, it would seriously destroy my self-confidence and go against all the time I have invested in screening out the women in my past. That pretty much means that if I had accepted this one, then I would consider myself stupid for the ones I passed up previously because they weren't in such bad shape as this one was.
I liked her, but her past interfered?
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Come on. Would you date a guy who, in a previous life, slept with 3 of your good friends. All of whom you talk to on a regular basis? Imagine the wedding. :X lol
And what do I have to offer? A big, loving heart.
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I would date a guy who slept with 5 of my friends, and invite them over to see if they all wanted to have some fun together provided they were disease free.
But I don't have time for this really, I've seen the long winded responses you post and I hate that shit. Win your argument... by saying more than the other person. ;P
Just go watch Chasing Amy.
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So, explain how that movie relates? I really want to hear this one. And please tell me how the lesbian relates to the situation.
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Umm.. *spoiler alert* The entire plot of the movie is about how the guy is unable to get over "the lesbian's" past and so he loses her.... >.>
Doesn't sound like you have a big, loving heart if all you can see is faults in everyone (besides yourself) and think you deserve something you very well may not.
Something's out of balance here, obviously. Are you approaching girls you feel are up to your standards? If so, are you immediately getting shot down?
Where are you trying to meet girls?
Do you have a job? A nice place?
What kind of baggage do you have?
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*smh* I don't at all think he's just going around looking at every single little bitty fault of this girl! It seems to me that there are just some hangups that he can't really let go of. EVERYONE has standards. And people should have standards! His just happens to be that he doesn't want to date a skank. I wouldn't particularly want to date a skank either. It's not fun getting leftovers. What's so wrong about having standards about who you date? I believe you shouldn't lower your standards just to find someone to be with.
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I cannot help but to agree with you. It seems that the people who are severely bothered by my statement are those who've been especially promiscuous themselves at one time in their life, predictably, and consider promiscuity a trait that I must look past because "everyone" has their faults. Truthfully, I don't think anyone wants a skank, but that's difficult to not stumble over. So, if I have do date a skank, I rather not date one that has particularly slept with a plethora of my mates. Not only would that make me look bad and stupid, it would seriously destroy my self-confidence and go against all the time I have invested in screening out the women in my past. That pretty much means that if I had accepted this one, then I would consider myself stupid for the ones I passed up previously because they weren't in such bad shape as this one was.