When I was lesbian I was involved with someone like you and guess what? All that teasing drove me crazy and although I loved her to bits, I dumped her as a lover. It's called cunt teasing by the way and is cruel and manipulative.
Her ambivalence was a result of childhood sexual abuse, but she wouldn't access counselling and thirty years later still hasn't, so now has no relationships at all.
You need to sort out what your mixed responses are about before the same thing happens to you: you're not being fair to your girlfriend or to yourself to let this continue.
I like to talk about having sex, teasing,touching, but not have sex?
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When I was lesbian I was involved with someone like you and guess what? All that teasing drove me crazy and although I loved her to bits, I dumped her as a lover. It's called cunt teasing by the way and is cruel and manipulative.
Her ambivalence was a result of childhood sexual abuse, but she wouldn't access counselling and thirty years later still hasn't, so now has no relationships at all.
You need to sort out what your mixed responses are about before the same thing happens to you: you're not being fair to your girlfriend or to yourself to let this continue.