I like to just sit around

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Hi, I got married a month ago and ever since I have decided to just sit around the house.

When I was engaged and dating I was outgoing and liked to cook and clean and everything but now I find I don't really enjoy those things.

My husband complains about it but that is just how I have been feeling and he should respect that I don't really like getting out of bed that much. I was recently fired for missing work too much because of this and I don't plan on getting another job at the moment. I think he should understand how hard it is for me right now but he says I need to get off my butt.

Is this a normal thing. I mean. I spent a whole year planning the perfect wedding and everything I am am just exhausted now.

Thanks for listening.

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  • Nikclaire
    4 years ago

    No. You sound like a nightmare bait and switch succubus.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Why? Cause I'm tired? I spent a year making all our wedding plans and now I want to relax and enjoy myself. My husband can always get a second job if he wants.

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  • GaelicPotato
    4 years ago

    So just sit around.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I am.

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      • GaelicPotato
        4 years ago

        Honestly, if you're not working you're entirely responsible for the household as well as dinner.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          Yeah, I will look into maid services but I don't like to cook so we could order in and I can also have frozen t.v dinners delivered. As long as I don't have to deal with dishes, igh such a pain.

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          • GaelicPotato
            4 years ago

            Yes well, that's called having a household. Nobody likes to do it but since you don't work, that's your contribution.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              4 years ago

              Which service do you recommend. I dont speak mexican so that's outta the question. Also do they do laundry too cuz I hate that.

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  • Unknown_player
    4 years ago

    Your only excuse should be that you're depressed but I'm depressed I still try and you know what? Doing things you don't like is a part of life. If you aren't depressed or going through something if you're just happy sitting back letting your partner do everything that's scummy because relationships are supposed to be reciprocal after all that he's done, what do you have to offer him? Especially when you give the vibes of lazy unmotivated and uncaring

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  • Mammal-lover
    4 years ago

    Nice troll. Besides its usually only women who care about the perfect wedding. So really congrats you focused on you for a year.

    Frankly if I was him I would already be filing for divorce. Having lazy days is normal but losing your job from it and not even cleaning up or cooking. Yea deal breaker theres the door.

    Relationships are 50/50 and if you ain't doing your half I'll find someone who will. My ex wasnt doing his half. Ended a 2 year live in relationship. So yea stop being pathetic

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  • rocketdave
    4 years ago

    If you're loaded why is he still paying off your wedding bills, surely that is for the Father of the bride?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I didn't say I was loaded.

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Your a fucking scumbag. I feel so bad for your husband as well omg. Sit around all day while he works cause you got fired for being lazy and refuse to work. This is why I fear marriage.

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    • Mammal-lover
      4 years ago

      Dude legit. Would have those divorce papers filed sooooo quickly.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I am scum why? I don't do anything wrong I just enjoy watching t.v and things like that and since I learned I don't like cooking or cleaning up why should I have too?

      Do you routinely do things you dislike because that's just dum.

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      • d0esnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        You are proving my point. You can't just "not like" doing stuff and never do it. It's called be a lazy bag of meat, a description that fits you very well.

        Yes, I attend university and do 4-5 hours of stuff I don't like everyday because I need money to sustain myself.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          Yeah but I dont need money.

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          • d0esnormalmatter
            4 years ago

            Ya because your mooching off your husband who should divorce your lazy ass

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              4 years ago

              How I am mooching exactly? Maybe you are making some stupid assumptions about my finances.

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  • Fugazi,again
    4 years ago

    What if your husband decides to do the same thing?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Then he would be loser homeless bum. Certainly I won't be with someone with no job.

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      • Fugazi,again
        4 years ago

        Then why should he be with you?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          You're trying to funny I see but I am serious. I come for the advice not jokes.

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          • Fugazi,again
            4 years ago

            Im not trying to be funny im exposing your hypocrisy

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              4 years ago

              I mean it makes no since because he has a job and can't just sit around. Plus we just got married so he still has to pay off the wedding and all that.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              4 years ago

              Huh. I don't get it.

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