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I like to get a spanking like i was really getting punished for something.I dont know why?I need help to know why i like to get a spanking and how to tell my mom about it. Am i crazy please let me know
Its not for everyone, but for anyone who loves it like you do t is great therapy and you just need the right person who understands how to spank really well and relax some who should do it!
I believe a spanking desire is normal as several surveys show that a large percentage of the adult population either fantasize about spanking or being spanked. It's proposed that this desire is NOT aquired from experience but is latent. It is hard-wired into an individual's sexual makeup and if, not suppressed can be a valuable adjunct to a complete sexual repertoire.
I also felt the need to be punished by my mom or aunts when I was a teenager and into adulthood. The first time I asked my mom to punish me was when I was 14. She had taken me golfing that day and we got into an argument about something on the course and argued more in the car on the way home. She attempted to swat at my butt with her hand but it literally did nothing. Then a few hours later, she made us dinner and I began to feel really really really bad. Later that evening I worked up the courage to approach her and hand her a leather belt and a bar of soap. I explained to her that I was sorry about how I behaved and I knew I deserved a good mouth soaping and belting. Almost immediately she ordered me to go wait for her in the bathroom. She entered 30 seconds after me and began lathering up the bar of ivory soap, I began to feel scared but assumed it wouldn't last that long. She probably spent ten minutes rubbing that bar of soap around in my mouth, and then, without letting me rinse, she told me that I wasn't allowed to remove the soap until my strapping was complete. I would have been yelling and pleading with her if my mouth wasn't gagged with the bar of soap. For a moment, I thought my punishment was over, but then she went to her closet and got out an old rattan cane and told me she was going to give me 10 strokes with it. She taught me a very good lesson that day, and since then, i've only required thorough punishments about once a year. Even now in adulthood, I still seek them out when I feel I deserve them.
Yes, I have the feeling of getting spanked and when I was always enjoyed, very much.
I'm female 28 years old and I feel the need to be spanked by an older man. I have felt this way since I was a teenager. I don't know how old you are but I think if you feel you are able to tell your mum, I think that's very brave.
The wanting to be spanked is normal.Telling your mum is not.See it this way,good idea bad idea.
You didn't say how old you are, so it's hard to answer, but if you're still in spanking age, and you really believe you need to be spanked, then sit down, and tell her, just be prepared to get more of a spanking then you think you want.
Don't tell your mom...I'm a grown man and love to be stripped naked and spanked buck naked over the knee with others watching...makes me like 12 yo again.
Bob(by)
Good reads:
Plain Talk About Spanking
by Jordan Riak,
The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children
by Tom Johnson,
NO VITAL ORGANS THERE So They Say
by Lesli Taylor M.D. and Adah Maurer Ph.D.