I like to be held

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Well to start off, for those of you who don't know me, I'm not a soft guy. I'm a bit of a smartass, abrasive, intimidating, I come from a spanish-italian background, I'm a biker, a boxer, a dancer and I work in showbusiness, but I do side work as a security job and manager of a casino.

But I have a really big soft side, and I like to be held. I don't like it, I love it. My wife has picked me up like a baby before and rocked me, bounced me, etc, and I would live out every minute of my life like that if I could. I always lay my head down in her lap to cuddle and I'll let her cradle me until I fall asleep. When she rocks me and hums to me, its even better. I absolutely love this. Being "held" like a long hug is mediocre. But being picked up and rocked to and fro is such a rush, it makes me feel absolutely in love with the person who is holding me. I haven't been held since I was an infant, and I was never touched or rubbed, only when I had my first gf did I discover how amazing it was.

Is this normal?

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  • trav1085
    13 years ago

    That's normal I normally am not very expressive of my feelings but I love it when my gf holds me. Even if we are sitting on the couch sometimes I lie behind her and put my head on her shoulder but I feel weird doing it cause I feel it's something a guy shouldn't do and I don't want to annoying her but she seems to like it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Normal.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    I knew you were soft the moment I read "a dancer".

    Most people have a softer side. The tougher you act, the softer it is.

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  • mandypandy92
    13 years ago

    awww thats sweet :) i cuddle my bf all the time and hes wayy taller than me an hes not fat but like bigger than me so its limited for picking him up lol but we always cuddle and he lays in my lap and i love it <3 ur normal lol

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