I like older guys

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I'm very mature for my age ppl always forget my age and tell me stuff becuse they think I'm older I guess bcuz I was always in my moms buisness Since the longest time I can remember I liked older guys whn I was like 5 I liked my uncles friend who was 13 then my first bf was 26 then 18 then 16 then 20 then then 18/17 around 18-20 and now 38 is that wierd idk why I like it I feels so ashamed and embarresed like I shouldn't be living like this like I'm the only one out there in the world with this problen idk what do do with my self I feel like a wirdo crazy person that should be put away I'm a crazy home. Am I wierd

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  • doddeman
    14 years ago

    Some girls/women like/loves older guys. It quite normal. You do not harm anyone with it, and you will certainly make a special man very happy.

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  • renreb88
    15 years ago

    id say go for it. it depends what you want. most times older guys only want sex cuz a relationship with a much younger girl aint gonna work out long term. it can be fun tho especially if the guy has money. hahaha

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  • buriedalive
    15 years ago

    It's normal to have the attraction, but since I don't know how old you are I can't say whether it's right to act on it. If you're over 18, then sure, it's your life, go for it, but if you're younger (which it kind of sounds like, no offence if you're older) dating a 38 year old guy is a really bad idea. Aside from compatibility issues, you have to realise in a lot of places this guy could go to jail for having a relationship with you, and also, when you're young, it's very easy to over-estimate your own maturity and get into bad situations (if you're over 18, like I said, you can disregard that XD), Don't feel guilty about the attraction though, that sort of thing's v. common.

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  • Obsdwddfnalsx
    15 years ago

    You missed to start your description with your age. By the end of the information we still don't know what age gap we are talking about, but let me tell you. Not everybody that is in the exact situation that you are comes here and says it. May be that the mayority of people don't feel that way but it doesn't mean you are the only one in the hole world like that. I personally have know people with extremely big difference in age with their partner. Just check the name Clint Eastwood and you'll see the his wife is like 35 years apart. He is 70 some and she is in her mid 30s. You may say is because he is famous. Well if that is the case fame may not be something you are after but if you feel attraction toward older men what right the people has to avoid you from feeling that attraction? You are not hurting anyone buy feeling that way but you for consider it an aberration, a weird feeling or something that you shouldn't feel. I'm 46 and feel an exceptional atraction for a coworker that is just past 20 and she knows about it but she is cool with it. I don't know if we are going to be more than friends but I'm ok if we don't that doesn't stop me from feeling atracted to her.

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