I like my bestfriend's ex-boyfriend!

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Ok, so my bestfriend (I'll call her Annie.) has always had an on and off relationship for about a year and a half or so. (We'll call him Justin.) Justin is a really nice guy. One of those people who never say anything bad about someone and is ALWAYS smiling and can make you smile on the worst days. So, apperently they had this huge fight and now they're officially broken up. Annie says she'll NEVER get back together with him again. I'm not so sure she means that, but I take her for her word. So, even though she now hates him with a passion, I still talk to him. He's really a nice guy, wether he fought with Annie or not. Now she glares at me when I talk to him, but I ususally just ignore her. So, now I'm starting to crush on him a bit. Annie still talks to him every once in a long while, so I kind of always get between them and start talking. Now that the year is ending, and he's going to a different school next year, I kind of want to ask him out. I was thinking of asking him to slow dance at the graduation party. The party is June 1st, and the date today is March 24th. I'm really unsure what to do. I don't want to lose my best friend, but I really wanna slow dance with Justin. I have no idea what to do! Is this NORMAL?????

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  • Ines
    13 years ago | pl

    My best friend (who's actually not my best friend anymore) is dating my ex. She didn't tell me and I got this text from another friend that said she saw the two of them kissing. I went mad, I don't even know why, because the only thing I feel for him is disgust, but I felt so betrayed. And we did start to grow apart before that, when I thought she was spending way too much time with him after what this jerk did to me. I think dating your best friend's ex is way off limits, but that's my opinion. Again, you just should think about the fact that you might lose Annie. Then it's your call.

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    • LizFace
      11 years ago | pl

      Same Thing Happened To Me D:
      Like iStill Like Tha Guy & iConsider Them Both Backstabbers; My "Friend" Was Tha One That Got Us Together In The Beggining! I Admit I Felt Betrayed & iActually Saw Them KISSING! Wtf! >:(

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  • dirty_girl
    12 years ago | pl

    Meh have fun and have sex with him if u really like him!

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  • idk
    13 years ago | pl

    itz normal in the sense that you like ur friends partner...i mean most people at one point in there lives at least were intrigued by there friends significant other.
    now besides the fact that that is your best friends ex..he is an EX for a reason...in some way shape or form he is not he was not gopod enough for your best friend... and he probably isnt good enough for you...now back to the fact that goin with your friends ex sort of undermines your friendship with annie...if she is truely your friend then you should support her...not say you snooze you lose if u uinderstand what i am saying.

    so all in all i dont suggest it at all....but it is normal to in a sense want what you friend has or had lol

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  • mtnw
    13 years ago | pl

    i think you are normal, but, annie is going to feel betrayed if you start seeing justin. in fact, because she glares at you, she is feeling betrayed when you just talk to him.

    you two are friends, and friends have things in common, so it's no wonder that you and annie, at different times, would both like justin.

    best friends ex's are usually off limits no matter what your age is.

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