Don't even think about it. That's your best friend's boyfriend, show her and yourself some dignity and respect. Tell him to stop flirting with you. That's what you need to do, not 'does he like me'. He has got to stop calling you cute. It's not cute, it's really mean to her. Unless setting her up to start distrusting and building walls is what you want.
What I'm saying is that you're at a line right now. You can choose to cross it, lose trust, lose a bf, gain a jerk bf -or- you can pull back from it and not lose anything but sexual gratification- which your bf can do.
To answer your question, yes people develop interest in their friend's sig. others, and sig. other's friends. But a person of good character won't tempt that interest.
Okay i'm gonna be the first person here to say something that make's sense. GO GET HIM!
1. You are the ONLY reason her and him are going out, okay? Don't mean that there was/is/ever will be any chemistry between them.
2. If you got along better with him, then it may be worth the sacrifice compared to what normally follows; unrequited feelings on your end and possibly his too. Take my word for it, that sh** HURTS! You don't wanna be on its receiving end.
3. Who cares about doing the right thing if 2 out of 3 people end up miserable? Justify the sense in that oh and while you're at it tell me what part of him liking the girl he met first makes him a jerk anyways?
Oh and Darkoil got a point to. Just remember the rubbers if you're into that.
u are a fucking idoit please dont listen to her. i think all you have is lust for him which will go away soon. yes u setted them up . you shouldnt set them up than try dating him thats wrong! whst kind of friend are you? seriouly put yourself in that seneiro with u as your bestfriend how would u feel? the fact that u even complated this sickin me. shes ur bestfriend! she trust you. dont lose her over a stupid boy
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Don't even think about it. That's your best friend's boyfriend, show her and yourself some dignity and respect. Tell him to stop flirting with you. That's what you need to do, not 'does he like me'. He has got to stop calling you cute. It's not cute, it's really mean to her. Unless setting her up to start distrusting and building walls is what you want.
What I'm saying is that you're at a line right now. You can choose to cross it, lose trust, lose a bf, gain a jerk bf -or- you can pull back from it and not lose anything but sexual gratification- which your bf can do.
To answer your question, yes people develop interest in their friend's sig. others, and sig. other's friends. But a person of good character won't tempt that interest.
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ARGH! do people not get it?
Okay i'm gonna be the first person here to say something that make's sense. GO GET HIM!
1. You are the ONLY reason her and him are going out, okay? Don't mean that there was/is/ever will be any chemistry between them.
2. If you got along better with him, then it may be worth the sacrifice compared to what normally follows; unrequited feelings on your end and possibly his too. Take my word for it, that sh** HURTS! You don't wanna be on its receiving end.
3. Who cares about doing the right thing if 2 out of 3 people end up miserable? Justify the sense in that oh and while you're at it tell me what part of him liking the girl he met first makes him a jerk anyways?
Oh and Darkoil got a point to. Just remember the rubbers if you're into that.
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u are a fucking idoit please dont listen to her. i think all you have is lust for him which will go away soon. yes u setted them up . you shouldnt set them up than try dating him thats wrong! whst kind of friend are you? seriouly put yourself in that seneiro with u as your bestfriend how would u feel? the fact that u even complated this sickin me. shes ur bestfriend! she trust you. dont lose her over a stupid boy