It's complicated. I left at first. (wasn't being treated properly imo) But I came crawling back because I loved him so much. Then he started talking to some other chick that eventually started stopping by his work place every night. It was too painful for me so I moved to a completely different state because I felt like I was being backed into a corner. Now to this day I'm not sure if love truly exist.
Well that makes perfect sense then. And how you're feeling is so normal. If you've been hurt really bad, it's going to take a lot of time until you heal from it. I've had a similar situation but we weren't married, which being married probably makes it 10x worse, the love of my life was dating someone behind my back. It took me four years to fully recover. And the people I dated I never really felt anything towards and would only last like 2 months and then it ended. When it did end I didn't feel very hurt, sorry but not hurt. It's really really hard to be with someone for so long and get used to your life with them and have so many things around you that remind you of that person and think of how you used to think you'd spend the rest of your life with them. It's going to take a while to heal, and I'm sorry that, that happened to you I hope it works out best for you and you find someone eventually you can fall in love with and be happy with.
I like a guy until I find out that he likes me?
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It's complicated. I left at first. (wasn't being treated properly imo) But I came crawling back because I loved him so much. Then he started talking to some other chick that eventually started stopping by his work place every night. It was too painful for me so I moved to a completely different state because I felt like I was being backed into a corner. Now to this day I'm not sure if love truly exist.
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Well that makes perfect sense then. And how you're feeling is so normal. If you've been hurt really bad, it's going to take a lot of time until you heal from it. I've had a similar situation but we weren't married, which being married probably makes it 10x worse, the love of my life was dating someone behind my back. It took me four years to fully recover. And the people I dated I never really felt anything towards and would only last like 2 months and then it ended. When it did end I didn't feel very hurt, sorry but not hurt. It's really really hard to be with someone for so long and get used to your life with them and have so many things around you that remind you of that person and think of how you used to think you'd spend the rest of your life with them. It's going to take a while to heal, and I'm sorry that, that happened to you I hope it works out best for you and you find someone eventually you can fall in love with and be happy with.