I lied now i feel bad

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Ive been with my boyfriend for 4years, when we 1st met I knew he had made another girl pregnant but he told me they had broken up.i asked the girl and she confirmed it now couple of months later I found out he had made the very same girl pregnant well I was devastated but we spoke about it and worked things out! A couple of months ago I found messages on our joint email of his baby mama,found out they never actually broke up and they've been together for almost 7years now,I was was so angry so I lied to him and told him I was pregnant just to spite him (which I now know it was a big mistake) him and this girl came to me to tell me that they togethers for the sake of the kids,the girl said she won't break up with him but she will not fight him on being with him because clearly I make him happy! Things have been going well
And now I realize that what I did was a very big mistake..i wanted to hurt him then but now it's actually hurting me! I also now know that I don't wanna be caught in the situation where I'm fighting to be in someone's life just because of a kid! I thought of telling him I miscarried but that's just not me,I'm not a liar! I wanna tell him the truth but my boyfriend can be so brash and knowing him he loves kids so much he might not even forgive me
Please help

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  • _ItsScience
    6 years ago | pl

    Leave. It's hard, sounds impossible, life changing (you bet) but that relationship already is so out of whack. Find someone you won't have to lie to.

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    • Annie25
      6 years ago

      I agree.
      Dont try and save this relationship its already fucked up and will do no good to you. It might be hard for you to get out now but just do it for your own sake

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    6 years ago

    Tell him the truth, cut your losses, and end the relationship. This whole thing is unhealthy.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Just dump him, and then your problems are solved. I hate lies and lying, but don't nit pick about a lie on your part when he already told you a massive four year long lie. Dump him, it's not so bad to be alone.

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  • Just_myluck
    6 years ago

    People deserve the truth, even if it hurts. Do yourself a huge favor and leave that relationship. You might say that's easier said than done, but it CAN be done. I know from experience and you will move onto a happier life without lies.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    Lying is playing with the devil's fire , It can get you murdered by a daddy that doesn't want a child or by a jealous lady. Come clean as soon as possible , explain its better for him as the father of his two children. You will find another guy.

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
    6 years ago

    Let him be with his kids your just the side hoe, or get preggers for real by a different guy that'd be the good revenge like I gottcha bitch 😉

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  • 4Guardians
    6 years ago

    Dump him. A man who was secretly in relationship with another women isn't worth your time.

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  • Avant-Garde
    6 years ago

    His baby mama and him have zero self-respect. Can you imagine if you actually did get pregnant by this male whore what the situation would be like? Leave him. Forget about him. Move on with your life and find a man who respects himself and others. But first, you need to tell him you lied. Have someone come with you when you tell him just in case he becomes irate over the news.

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