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I let him put his fingers all over my body in the dark... the first time he did it I couldn't talk and I was paralyzed from fear and anger. Now I let it happen.
Maybe he sensed you needed some dick and he obliged, some brothers are thoughtful like that. If you don't enjoy it tell him to fk off or you'll tell on him, simple as that.
That's not normal at all. It's your own brother, and you're saying he basically raped you the first time? You absolutely need to tell your parents.
What I understand is that calling something rape will ruin someones life forever. Where they live, what they can do for a living, who they can live with, where they can go. That's AFTER they serve their time.
It's not a word to fuck around with.
The Title of this thread AND the last sentence states "I LET HIM."
That is CONSENT in any stretch of the imagination. It doesn't matter how OP felt. If it wasn't verbalized and they let it happen and continue to let it happen and NO was never stated then it's not rape.
What fucking planet do you live on?
Do you want to live in a world where any prior partner can just decide, "meh I wasn't cool with what you did", after the fact, and brand you a rapist?? Do you? Use your fucking brain.
Don't you realise that being sexually abused can "ruin someone's life for ever"? Letting someone abuse you while being paralysed with fear and anger IS NOT CONSENT.
And btw letting someone is the very definition of consent.
"verb
1.
give permission for something to happen.
"he consented to a search by a detective"
synonyms:agree to, assent to, yield to, give in to, submit to;"
I understand all to well but I also realize that people cannot read someones mind.
This original post is most likely a troll because it has perfect juxtaposition to cause arguments and no detail.
The thing is I don't want to live in a world where you need a signed and notarized document to touch anyone or make any kind of sexual advance.
If thats the new standard you liberal freaks are pushing, you may as well all report to prison and register yourself on the sex offender list because with few exceptions, every adult in the world has made advances without asking permission.
I understand everything about "I let him" but if you read it in context with the rest of the post you can clearly see that she is not letting him out of enjoyment, and that she did not consent in any way.
@Kevinevan
Not gonna fly buddy. I was a little kid when my birth dad touched me. I didn't move or say anything. I just laid there and cried. It can be so terrifying that the person literally cant speak. Go fuck yourself.
Read my other post on this very comment before you tell me to fuck myself.
Just because you want to pick and chose to make your argument doesn't mean you should. Use your whole brain.
Also, transference is a thing that applies to situations too, not just relationships.
It's okay, he just wants to make you feel good. Tell him to give you a heads-up next time.