I think I get where you're coming from. Seeking help means that you're quite aware of the problematic situation you're in. Making your SO the center of the universe is not the problem, but it's about you. You feel you have nothing in life and so it's easier to be around your BF and hearing about his ambitions makes it look like you've got a stake in his future. It's really depression that's stopping you from building your own life. It's not a problem you can solve on your own. Maybe check with a psychologist. Good luck with your life
I know it's not normal, but I'm so clingy
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I think I get where you're coming from. Seeking help means that you're quite aware of the problematic situation you're in. Making your SO the center of the universe is not the problem, but it's about you. You feel you have nothing in life and so it's easier to be around your BF and hearing about his ambitions makes it look like you've got a stake in his future. It's really depression that's stopping you from building your own life. It's not a problem you can solve on your own. Maybe check with a psychologist. Good luck with your life