I know it's normal, but horny w/ no sex. helppppp

I know its normal to be horny. However, I really need some way to curb this appetite that doesn't involve sex.

My boyfriend is at college, and literally I am dying from the inside out. Because sex is my life, I love it so much and I am not getting it.
Sooo some tips from sex addicts?
Anything would help,
I just need to be able to control it; and not rip off all my clothes..
thanks

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[Old Memory]

9 years ago

Just deal with it. There are millions of guys in your position who go their whole lives without sex even thought they want to. You situation is nothing.

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- SpencerDiLaurenta
  
  9 years ago
  
  but...they have dealt with it before, they are use to it.
  I'm not, so the only answer here is too just deal with it? That's horrible. New found respect for men all over the world.
  
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  - Freedom_
    
    9 years ago
    
    To be honest, if you tried focusing your attention on something more pressing in your life other than the sex issue you would be thinking less about sex and working on bigger issues more. Besides, you don't want to end up at starbucks searching for nonexistent condoms.
    
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    9 years ago
    
    Yeah, you are making a big deal out of something insignifant. Even people who havent had sex dont have it as bad as others. There are people suffering all over the world with disease and inhumane imprisonment for standing up for others, being tortured and used as experiments, having their skin and eyes rot off as they watch everything they love die no matter how much they care.
    Your needs are an insult.
    
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    - SpencerDiLaurenta
      
      9 years ago
      
      You can not tell someone what is insignificant to them, its not an opinion...
      
      Sexual needs & types of torture are on different spectrum's. You cannot compare those two things, and by doing that, YOU are insulting them, not me.
      
      Also, not once did I say that my needs were worse than others, simply that it is terrible for me.
      
      so, bye.
      
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        9 years ago
        
        What it was that bothered me was saying that people get used to it, because usually they do not. I used my example because I have heard some of the worst stories from people and have noticed someone always has is worse.
        I also regularly talk to people on other web forums and not being able to get laid or get a date is a common topic. Many people have even killed themselves. They do not get used to it.
        I suppose I have already burnt my bridge with you and I understand you were simply asking for advice and not for me to act aggressive. I realize now I could have been more positive but sometime I react that way towards comments that make me think of negativity.
        
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(s)aint

9 years ago

I'm a girl and a sex-addict so I will try to help you, but also say that nothing really gets you the feeling of the real deal either -_- Can you both make an effort to meet up within a near future?

Otherwise: Webcamsex with him during which you do not orgasm until you have been close ten times or so, the satisfaction for me is greater when I have been really trying to resist orgasming.

There is also this toy that I found at a store where your partner can use his cellphone to send vibrations to a toy that is miles away in your pants ;D Giving both of you a way to be intimate without necessarily being close. This was however really expensive (Reason why I didn't got it)

I'll also give you a sad dose of the reality as it would be for me: I would consider it a deal-breaker with distance over a longer period of time. I have also told my boyfriend this. My emotional and sexual needs are fat too great for me to be able to refrain from being with him for several years D:

I would much rather take the pain instantly and get over it than slowly admitting to both of us that distance does not work.

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- SpencerDiLaurenta
  
  9 years ago
  
  Thank you so much
  this actually really helped, you were the person I was asking the question for haha.
  I will definitely research these options,
  Thanks for the tips, so great.
  
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  - (s)aint
    
    9 years ago
    
    Hahaha! Lucky for you that I found it then! Haha.
    
    Another thing that is quite fun is to decide to watch a 10/20/30 minute long porno and masturbate the entire time and you must NOT orgasm until it's over.
    
    sexting/trading pictures etc with your s/o is also fun ;D
    
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DannyKanes

9 years ago

You can buy these kits where you can make a mould of your mans penis, and then make a dildo out of it. Probably the closest thing you'll get to him being there.

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- Freedom_
  
  9 years ago
  
  Ay, lemme get a mold of your penis!
  
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  - DannyKanes
    
    9 years ago
    
    There wouldn't be a cast small enough I'm afraid :P
    
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- SpencerDiLaurenta
  
  9 years ago
  
  oo
  
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Gspyder

9 years ago

Phone sex, lots of phone sex. Then after a month or two you get used to it and it's not a big deal any more. Also, when you visit each other the sex is awesome, so you have that to look forward to.

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RainbowDischarge

9 years ago

Quick! To the Masturbation Station! More lube STAT!!

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TrustMeImLying

9 years ago

Homeless man's hairy butt crack.
Two 80 year olds having sex.
A smashed giant cockroach.
The smell of a downtown gutter.

You're welcome.

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- eastbeast
  
  9 years ago
  
  Oh.......I thought that was going to be a song...
  
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  - Freedom_
    
    9 years ago
    
    It could be. Punk rock?
    
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- SpencerDiLaurenta
  
  9 years ago
  
  hahahahahahahahahahahaha,
  but that actually worked..
  
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MasterOfWaffles

9 years ago

Prostitutes.

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Cats_Rule

9 years ago

Either curb it or finish with your boyfriend so you can indulge yourself in whatever works for you.

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- SpencerDiLaurenta
  
  9 years ago
  
  I dont want to break up with him, i just want a way to not be so horny when he's away.
  It's annoying to not have an outlet.
  
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ginsters101

9 years ago

Go out and get laid. Use a married man/men - you probably already know plenty and most of them know to be discrete. Don't worry about their wives, the fact that they hardly ever screw their husbands is why these man will fuck you often.

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Avant-Garde

9 years ago

-meditation
-occupy your mind with other activities
-masturbation
-sex toys

Do you have any fetishes? Try experimenting with them, but remember to play safely!

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Freedom_

9 years ago

Would he let you use a vagina?

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- SpencerDiLaurenta
  
  9 years ago
  
  lol whaat?
  
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reminiscent

9 years ago

I dont understand why you just dont buy some toys

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- SpencerDiLaurenta
  
  9 years ago
  
  I have toys..
  It's not the same as a man
  
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  - reminiscent
    
    9 years ago
    
    To bad so sad...dont cheet
    Maybe find more realistic toys ...im sure a nice google search could help
    
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    - SpencerDiLaurenta
      
      9 years ago
      
      hahaha yeah okay thanks
      
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