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I know its normal to be horny. However, I really need some way to curb this appetite that doesn't involve sex.
My boyfriend is at college, and literally I am dying from the inside out. Because sex is my life, I love it so much and I am not getting it.
Sooo some tips from sex addicts?
Anything would help,
I just need to be able to control it; and not rip off all my clothes..
thanks
To be honest, if you tried focusing your attention on something more pressing in your life other than the sex issue you would be thinking less about sex and working on bigger issues more. Besides, you don't want to end up at starbucks searching for nonexistent condoms.
Yeah, you are making a big deal out of something insignifant. Even people who havent had sex dont have it as bad as others. There are people suffering all over the world with disease and inhumane imprisonment for standing up for others, being tortured and used as experiments, having their skin and eyes rot off as they watch everything they love die no matter how much they care.
Your needs are an insult.
You can not tell someone what is insignificant to them, its not an opinion...
Sexual needs & types of torture are on different spectrum's. You cannot compare those two things, and by doing that, YOU are insulting them, not me.
Also, not once did I say that my needs were worse than others, simply that it is terrible for me.
so, bye.
What it was that bothered me was saying that people get used to it, because usually they do not. I used my example because I have heard some of the worst stories from people and have noticed someone always has is worse.
I also regularly talk to people on other web forums and not being able to get laid or get a date is a common topic. Many people have even killed themselves. They do not get used to it.
I suppose I have already burnt my bridge with you and I understand you were simply asking for advice and not for me to act aggressive. I realize now I could have been more positive but sometime I react that way towards comments that make me think of negativity.
I'm a girl and a sex-addict so I will try to help you, but also say that nothing really gets you the feeling of the real deal either -_- Can you both make an effort to meet up within a near future?
Otherwise: Webcamsex with him during which you do not orgasm until you have been close ten times or so, the satisfaction for me is greater when I have been really trying to resist orgasming.
There is also this toy that I found at a store where your partner can use his cellphone to send vibrations to a toy that is miles away in your pants ;D Giving both of you a way to be intimate without necessarily being close. This was however really expensive (Reason why I didn't got it)
I'll also give you a sad dose of the reality as it would be for me: I would consider it a deal-breaker with distance over a longer period of time. I have also told my boyfriend this. My emotional and sexual needs are fat too great for me to be able to refrain from being with him for several years D:
I would much rather take the pain instantly and get over it than slowly admitting to both of us that distance does not work.