I know im gay but i dont know how to tell my family

ok im lesbian but ive gone out with guys after guy hoping that im wrong but after my most resent "heart break " or lack of there for i know that i like women and only women but i dont know how to tell my mom and i know it was wrong what i did to the guys but i need to know if im the only one that has fought this is this normal am i ????

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Comments ( 14 )
  • q1w2e3

    How sure you are that you are lesbian? Maybe after you go out with a woman you will be in the same doubt..

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  • Waterflux

    recent* but it's perfectly fine to be in the closet, all non-straight people begin in the closet. You'll come out one day, I'm sure of it! :)

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  • Almosttoolesbiantofunction

    Have you come out yet? It's been 3years.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    Are you sure you are gay? I am not saying you are not allowed but are you sure? I mean you never been with a women? Saying you are gay by default might not be true. You might not have met the right man. What if you date a woman and find out you do not like her either? Are you still gay? You might just not be very sexually attracted to anyone at all. Being gay or straight is fine. However I have noticed if something does not work with one gender people will assume they like the other. Just as a default. Maybe you are just not interested in anyone right now or not the right people you found. I could be wrong though.

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    • sticthesno

      ive bin with a women several and ya i kninda have to tell my family becasue its hurting me not being able to bring the grils home

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      • 1000yrVampireKing

        I see what you mean.

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    • sticthesno

      owowowow umm belive me dude i am vary sexually attracked to many ppl

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      • Almosttoolesbiantofunction

        Have you come out yet? It has been 3 years

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  • DavidS.

    @dinz...that is fuckin hilarious...bravo...this is your world we are only spectators...

    but really there is no rule book that says you have to tell anyone...its up to you to find the right time

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  • TilerDurden

    Make them a fish dinner. Maybe they'll get the hint .

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  • dinz

    Bake them a Gayke.

    http://typophile.com/files/gayke2_4639.jpg

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    • Almosttoolesbiantofunction

      I actually did that, it was all black and white stripes on the outside (straight flag) and in blue writing it said "hahaha, you thought I was straight". It was a six layer cake and each layer was a different color so when you cut it open you see the pride flag.

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    • 1000yrVampireKing

      Great way to do it! I do not think anyone could hate someone who made them cake either. Seems like it would be conflicting.

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    • GreyWulfen

      Awesome.

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