I knew something was wrong... no 4th date
I know what you’re all going to say before I start this... I’ve only been on 3 dates with the guy you shouldn’t feel like this. But his company was the best and he made me feel so special.
The past two days I knew something wasn’t right and so I decided to ask him out... and he said what were you thinking and I said I’d visit him... he said he needed to get something off his chest and that he would call... I said if you don’t want to see me again just say... he said it’s not that I just need to explain over call.
So he called and basically said something like this ‘its The fourth date now and it’s the point where feelings start to develop, and I don’t see it working for us, basically cause of the distant (30 mins)’ I said id travel and there’s longer relationships than that.. and is it me or my job blah blah. He said we wouldn’t have time for each other and it’s really hard cause I really really like you (he said that a few times) and If things were different I’d defs be asking you to be my girlfriend without a doubt’ I tried to persuade him but he went quick. I left him he then text me saying ‘I’ve had the best time, you deserve the best’ we had beeen talking a long time before these 3 dates..
We had a heart to heart and I told him how I felt... and basically if he liked me we could at least try... he seemed persuaded and kept saying it’s hard... I can’t write it all out on here. I said I don’t feel like throwing it away and he said ‘neither do i’ he then started saying how I’d got him into one of the places we ate and I said ‘you can remember me by that’ he put a cry face and said no doubt... then we have just been talking about what we usually do. He’s replying so I am...
I’m so confused and do like him....
| Leave him alone forever | 10 | |
| Other | 4 | |
| Don’t message and see if he comes back | 5 | |
| Keep talking and see what happens | 7 |