I want OP and the rest of the female population who thinks like this to read this comment and truly understand what its like to be a guy. Everything he said is correct and believe it or not, guys have feelings too. It is not simply about sex all the time, sometimes after spending a while with a female, its highly possible that this guy will develop feelings and just like females do, what is the proper way to handle this? You bring up your emotions and hope for the best. When this doesn't happen the way you want, its very disappointing, especially if said girl starts mentioning other guys of interest to the guy she turned down just because he is only a "friend", not realizing how the guy feels.
I know this because it has happened to me and sometimes you aren't trying to like someone, it just naturally happens, females understand this much right? Best female friend I had real feelings for turns me down, later down the line says "Theres this guy I met in class that I've been thinking about..", seriously? Don't tell me that isn't rude, it says "You did not interest me but I'm going to let you know who did". Some females should realize this and not stay in the negative generalization that guys lack emotions.
well this post WAS just about sex. I was asking why is it when I freshly start to get along with someone they all of a sudden quickly try to get in my pants, then when I say no they leave. I'm not talking about long lasting crushes on girls that boys are forever reminded of having. Chill y'all. I never said boys don't have feelings... we're obviously just talking about 2 different scenarios..
Your post did not mention natural feelings, it put all guys in the same group whether you were trying to or not. Any guy you come across who acts friendly and then jets when he finds out he can't get in those pants is bad, yes. Some females do this same thing too though as it has happened to me. If you're only talking about those types of guys then at least specify your knowledge of not all guys being like that, also, what is there to complain about? They, just like the females like this, are doing you a favor by leaving and the friends will stay, no big deal. Its a thing because some people have ulterior motives and its something you just brush off and don't worry about. Your story made sense but you're going to have to use words that don't lump everyone together and is clear in your target, not driven by disgust. Try reading over it yourself and see if you can find any indication of "I know all guys aren't like this but some do this", in which I wouldn't have responded like that.
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I want OP and the rest of the female population who thinks like this to read this comment and truly understand what its like to be a guy. Everything he said is correct and believe it or not, guys have feelings too. It is not simply about sex all the time, sometimes after spending a while with a female, its highly possible that this guy will develop feelings and just like females do, what is the proper way to handle this? You bring up your emotions and hope for the best. When this doesn't happen the way you want, its very disappointing, especially if said girl starts mentioning other guys of interest to the guy she turned down just because he is only a "friend", not realizing how the guy feels.
I know this because it has happened to me and sometimes you aren't trying to like someone, it just naturally happens, females understand this much right? Best female friend I had real feelings for turns me down, later down the line says "Theres this guy I met in class that I've been thinking about..", seriously? Don't tell me that isn't rude, it says "You did not interest me but I'm going to let you know who did". Some females should realize this and not stay in the negative generalization that guys lack emotions.
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well this post WAS just about sex. I was asking why is it when I freshly start to get along with someone they all of a sudden quickly try to get in my pants, then when I say no they leave. I'm not talking about long lasting crushes on girls that boys are forever reminded of having. Chill y'all. I never said boys don't have feelings... we're obviously just talking about 2 different scenarios..
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Your post did not mention natural feelings, it put all guys in the same group whether you were trying to or not. Any guy you come across who acts friendly and then jets when he finds out he can't get in those pants is bad, yes. Some females do this same thing too though as it has happened to me. If you're only talking about those types of guys then at least specify your knowledge of not all guys being like that, also, what is there to complain about? They, just like the females like this, are doing you a favor by leaving and the friends will stay, no big deal. Its a thing because some people have ulterior motives and its something you just brush off and don't worry about. Your story made sense but you're going to have to use words that don't lump everyone together and is clear in your target, not driven by disgust. Try reading over it yourself and see if you can find any indication of "I know all guys aren't like this but some do this", in which I wouldn't have responded like that.
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the way i typed this isn't too big of a concern to me. if it doesn't apply to you then it shouldn't be a problem