I just really want to talk to him..

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We’ve been speaking for 3 months and met 3 times, I’m getting attached and just wanna message him and be with him all the time. He’s always said when to meet and I’m wondering if this time I should make the first move? It’s all new to me and I’m not a very open person. In fact I’m feeling distant and weird because I like him and Idk if it’s making me act different but it’s making me feel different like I feel he isn’t interested or why would he be in me? I darent message much in case I get on his nerves.... I hate over thinking !!

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  • jack_shephard
    5 years ago

    well everyone on this site is here coz of "overthinking". I hate it so much but still can't help myself.
    anyway what are you really a asking here??

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  • andithoughtiwasweird
    5 years ago

    love your use of Daren't

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  • QueenLilith
    5 years ago

    You should tell him. It's worse wanting someone from a distance for months, years even, and finally telling them just ends in disaster.

    It's like a bandaid. Best get it over with, it will be more painful if you let it linger.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    If you really like him it's time. Make the move damn it!!!!

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Just text him, or *gasp* call him to see what's up with him. Try to be cool, and casual. Don't keep him on the phone for too long though if you call.

    Also, do mentally prepare yourself that if he's a jerk who isn't comfortable with a female being more assertive you can tell yourself he wasn't the one for you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Just text him. If you already feel that much, just grab on and don’t let go. It might be scary, but if you’re already there you might as well proceed.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    Set up a meeting and tell him you like him A LOT! If that doesn't work try greener pastures. It may be he is as shy as you appear to be. Go for it!

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  • Mangina
    5 years ago

    Yes, make the move. You have to get out of your comfort zone.. if you want to be with him you have to let him know you're interested by taking this risk.

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